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Old 07-31-2006, 05:28 AM
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Hi my friends like I told you in my introduction, I have a problem with my boyfriend.

We are together since a year and he was not like that in the beginning but gradually i get the impression that he has toose interest in everything and just sit infront of his playstation. He don't even answer my phone call.

We hardly go out. Or sometimes he would spend his time in the cyber cafe with his friends to play these games.

I have told him that our relationship are bein affected, he does not seems to care.

What should I do guys. ?
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Old 07-31-2006, 07:51 AM
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For sure your relationship would suffer. Coz a relationship needs time to nurture. How are you going to know each other if he spend his time playing playstation ?

If he does not seems to care that your relationship is going down then I would suggest you to stop calling him and stop seeing him for couple of days and see how he reacts.
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Old 08-01-2006, 09:54 AM
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I guess you should not see or even phone him for some days, he would gradually feel your absense and come back to you!
Till when would he sit in front of his playstation? There will be a day when he would get bored of it and then he would rush back to you, and then you decide if he deserves your love or not!
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Old 08-02-2006, 07:01 AM
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I can understand him, don't take him wrong, those games are so interesting that you forget everything.
Listen to me and start playing games with him too, in this way you will have lots fun together and your relationship will remain stable!
This is the best way if you don't want to leave him!
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Old 08-14-2006, 09:10 AM
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I can understand him, don't take him wrong, those games are so interesting that you forget everything.
Listen to me and start playing games with him too, in this way you will have lots fun together and your relationship will remain stable!
This is the best way if you don't want to leave him!
Nice and intelligent advice Jayne, i agree with you, i would have done the same if i were in her place.
Hey kathy, don't lose hope, you just have to join him in his game and that would
be so exiting, trust me, when in love, you have to do things that would please ur boyfriend!
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Old 08-14-2006, 09:31 AM
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Hi katy, i am sure that you will agree with me, not easy these guys!!!! Well, in such cases, i will advise you to take full advantage of being a woman. Make use of all your charms, and drag him out of this playstation game. Just tell him in a very romantic voice, what hes missing and all. If he is not picking up your phone, then leave a perfumed note behind.
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Old 08-24-2006, 03:32 PM
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Hello katy.Hope that you are fine.I will suggest you to have a talk with him telling him what you have in your heart.Just as you did on the forum.I do not think that a relationship will last without commitment from both parties.Be brave and have this talk with him.
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Old 08-25-2006, 12:11 PM
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Be happy that his pass time is playing play station games only, as compared as others, there's nothing to worry about it. Listen to jayne's advice, you can also enjoy that game as well as his company, do some some sorts of competition between you two and it would be more fun, believe me. So, why don't you try it and then let us know about the results.
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Old 09-17-2006, 07:50 AM
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i also agree that you should leave him alone for a few days and see whether it affects him or not. if he realises it and feels that he is missing you he will surely phone you and apologise as he will realise how you must have felt. but if he does not phono you the i think that the matter is serious.
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Old 11-29-2006, 06:39 AM
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I think that you must talk to him and make him understand that you need him as a boy friend not a playstation addict.You should tell him that you have nothing against him playing playstation but from time to time he could go out with you instead of going out all the time with his friends.I hope that he will understand your point of view.
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