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Old 07-27-2006, 06:35 AM
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She has been drinking since she was 17 yrs old. She drink to forget all of her isues but whats been hapening is that everything has been geting worse.

She feels like she can only talk to people if she is drunk. She uses alcohol as an aid to get things out that she has trapped inside. She wants help for this ,but then again she don't because she likes it too much.

She wants to face that she has a problem but if she feels like she don't want to talk to anyone about anything.

I know about her problem coz we are good friends but she does not want to get help from other people. Any sugestions???

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Old 07-28-2006, 10:43 AM
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She is very confused and she is drowning her sorrows, pain in alcohol.

As a good friend to her, you should encourage her to follow a therapy. She needs to accept to get out of the dark and may be I suppose she would be to be follow by psychologist who will help her express herself without feeling the need to drink.
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Old 07-28-2006, 10:47 AM
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This is a serious matter, she already became a drunkard and she really needs help otherwise it will be too late, she will destroy herself with the alcohol!
Does she has a boyfriend? I guess no....
The only solution is to get her admitted in a detox center to remove alcohol!
I know it's very difficult but you will have to convince her and she will have bear it for some days only!
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Old 07-31-2006, 06:41 AM
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Indeed, drinking will destroy and direct her to disaster and more trouble!
You are her friend, you should have made her believe in you, i guess you are not providing her with the support she needs!
Ther are many ways to convince her and assure her that a psychologist would help her to get rid of her pain, do the first step with her, make her so comfortable that she would willlingly accompany you to the psychologist, you will see, its very easy!
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