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07-24-2006, 01:38 AM
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My ex-husband created so many problems for me and told our kids it was because he had to pay child support. He also created problems for me with our kids before he paid child support. Our kids fought with me because of things he said. I gotta wonder if I never collected support, if my kids would have less hard feelings towards me.
What should I say to a young women going through what I went through. Do you erase child support to stop an abusive person in your life? My daughters are now college age. They are most likely to get abused because they were raised in the abuse. Jeannie 
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08-09-2006, 10:24 AM
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hello well i did not really get the point..if you get someone to explain to your children that what has happen is not your fault...are your children staying with you?? do you work??? whats the real problem can you be a more explicit plz then i'll be glad to help you...but keep courage....
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08-11-2006, 06:02 PM
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Jeanien I am goign thru the same thign and it has nothign to do with the child support and he shoudlnt be tellign the kdis anything about it!!!!!!!! You may look into Parent Alienation Syndrome, that is how he started with me and now has brainwashed my beautiful boys against me and they hate me. He is an evil wicked man who had a bad temper and now he lost control adn uses the kdisa as a weapon. Stop it now before it gets worse, trust me that is how it started with me. And YOU need child support to help with the finances, dont let his guilt be put on you!
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08-18-2006, 06:12 AM
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kids should be keep out of all these things, fights, divorce or parent's personal problems, they are not enough mature to handle such problems and nor should they interfere.
Keep your children away from your ex husband and if possible try to solve out all the misunderstandings he created.
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09-07-2006, 02:21 PM
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do you work ?????
if yes then i think you should leave the child support due to which your children are getting against you. just leave that thing and be happy in your life and thats all. tell your husband that he does not bother about it. talk to your children and get closer to them
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09-12-2006, 08:37 AM
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if he is giving such a hard time, coz he is giving you child support, but better not take it anymore. Coz he is causing you problems.
You make complaints against him and you might be getting any other social aid for you and your children.
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09-19-2006, 08:34 AM
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Reason him and ask him what is his problem, he should try to confuse or frustrate his children who are still young, and moreover he should not try to create problems between you and your children as they would become mentally unbalanced with all this.
And this is wrong!
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09-25-2006, 11:48 AM
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You have to keep your children away from such vile and narrow minded person, otherwise they would grow up with so much hatred for you as well as inside them, which would not be in their advantage. Isn't it possible to move away from your actual place although it's a bit difficult?
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