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Old 07-11-2006, 09:21 AM
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My friend's husband really wanted to buy a new car and he insisted they get one. So my friend agreed but on a limited budget. He agreed. But later on she found out he went over budget. He spent 3 times their budget. She felt hurt about what he did. But he said she was being ridiculous. She's just got mad and left him. It has been a week and she still hasn't heard from him. She's wondering , why hadn't make an effort to apologize or even just to contact her?
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Old 07-14-2006, 12:17 PM
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well maybe cause he got the car now and he can get any girl he wants....
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Old 07-14-2006, 12:20 PM
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wow acid rayne you want to get her more depressed than she already is????
na it may cause he's got too high an esteem of himself and can't accept to be the one to say sorry!!! wait til he's over playing with his new to see him running back to you!!
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Old 07-17-2006, 09:46 AM
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Am really sorry for you, how can man do such things?!
He has shown how irresponsible he is for wasting money and not abiding to the budget you two had made, he is the one to apologise and she should not forgive him until he does so....
As for why he is taking so much, well maybe he regrets how things went and does not really how to apologise!
she hould wait a little more, am sure he will get some guts to be in front of her and apologise!
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Old 07-17-2006, 10:52 AM
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hey what car did he buy?!
asking that just to know if it was worthless wasting so much money...

what she can do is to leave the guy once and for all so he gets a good lesson out of it!
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Old 07-17-2006, 01:07 PM
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He's such a jerk!! some guys really have an ego problem!! she's better off without him!! i hate it when someone knows he's at fault and don't apologize!!
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Old 07-18-2006, 07:42 AM
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He's such a jerk!! some guys really have an ego problem!! she's better off without him!! i hate it when someone knows he's at fault and don't apologize!!

you said it well kristina....
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Old 08-17-2006, 11:10 AM
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My friend's husband really wanted to buy a new car and he insisted they get one. So my friend agreed but on a limited budget. He agreed. But later on she found out he went over budget. He spent 3 times their budget. She felt hurt about what he did. But he said she was being ridiculous. She's just got mad and left him. It has been a week and she still hasn't heard from him. She's wondering , why hadn't make an effort to apologize or even just to contact her?

May be he is busy taking care of his car, or went on a long long drive!! No im kidding!!!
But she should not have left him like that,he already bought the car and she should have ignore it, as it is a matter of only some more money.
What would she do if she learns that her husband is busy dating someone else in her absense???
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Old 08-30-2006, 12:27 PM
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This is not a valid reason for your friend to leave her husband, why did she leave when she still loved him! She did a big mistake by leaving him and it's too late now, she already lost him just because of some more money that he invested in the car, so stupid!
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Old 09-06-2006, 05:29 PM
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I think that the husband is too proud to come and ask for forgiveness.In my opinion he did something that he should not have done.He has betrayed the wife.However knowing this the wife should try to get in contact with him just to give him his chance.
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