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Old 07-09-2006, 07:00 AM
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One time a friend came by my cousin's house to borrow money because she needed it for her son's enrolment. My cousin lent her the money which was for their bills. When her husband came home, she asked her husband if she could withdraw some money and she told him the story why she needed money. Her husband got angry and told her she should not have let her friend borrow. Was he right?
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Old 07-09-2006, 06:44 PM
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both of them are right on their point. she just tried to help her friend and he thought that she has given their hard earned money . i hope her friend gives her back the money
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Old 07-18-2006, 08:11 AM
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The husband is over reacting. There is not point to get angry here. He should be a little bit more human......
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Old 07-18-2006, 08:29 AM
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No the woman did something really wrong, she should never ever upset her husband for such matters as money, if the savings are for the family then no one ahould be touching it unless its for the family!
she did something really wrong according to me!
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Old 07-26-2006, 12:20 PM
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The wife should have first see the financial position of her own house then if she could help her friend. She might have asked the opinion of her husband first. The husband has got all the right to get angry and she deserves it.
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Old 08-17-2006, 10:07 AM
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No the woman did something really wrong, she should never ever upset her husband for such matters as money, if the savings are for the family then no one ahould be touching it unless its for the family!
she did something really wrong according to me!
Is helping someone a wrong thing???
The friend needed money for the enrollment of her son, not for enjoying herself, so there's no point that the husband gets angry at her, instead he should be happy to have such a helping and good hearted wife!
And moreover, that woman won't take the money for herself, she will return it!
Helping someone is something really great which you would not understand Blessed!
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Old 08-30-2006, 12:44 PM
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Her husband is an egoist, he is not happy that his wife helped someone having financial problems, this is very bad and i have always heard that such people will never prosperate in their entire life and there will be a time when they would need money too and at that time, no one would come for help.
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Old 09-09-2006, 01:24 PM
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In think that it all depends on the financial condition of the couple and whether the friend will repay or not.If the family finances is not affected I feel that the husband is over reacting.Anyway I think that she should have asked her husband first.
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Old 09-14-2006, 05:13 PM
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She did a good thing by helping someone who needed help and i don't see any problem here, he didi not become a pauper with this littlle money!
Your friend's husband is a mean person who thinks only for himself and he would never prosper like this!
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Old 09-14-2006, 05:18 PM
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Well, both are right where they stand. The wife was only helping a friend. But the husband is reacting as such because he is wondering if the friend will pay back or not. Indeed, there are many people who disappear after having cash in hand. In today's world, we can hardly trust. None of them is to be blamed. The world is as such!
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