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Old 07-08-2006, 09:29 PM
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My friend's cousin and her husband had a happy marriage. But one day she discovered she had breast cancer. She had to get an operation for that. Then she had her treatment after. Fortunately she survived te disease. However, she told my friend that husband doesn't feel attracted to her anymore now that she only has one breast. She confronted him when she felt something was he was not that cozy with her and he admitted about it. Now she said that she still loves him but if he doesn't love anymore, maybe she should just let him go.
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Old 07-08-2006, 11:55 PM
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That's sad and quite unfair. Her husband should be more loving and reassuring to her especially after an ordeal like that.
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Old 09-14-2006, 03:18 PM
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thats so sad. such a cheap husband. his wife survived death and he is not cared about this
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Old 09-20-2006, 11:14 AM
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The fact that she has removed a breast, he doesn't love her anymore. But this could be replaced, there are some special surgery with is done for such cases.

I think from the very begining he did not really love her. She cannot just let him go easily like that. After all it's her husband, he can't just wake up in the morning and say he don't love her anymore and decide to leave her.

This is not acceptable. As his wife she should defend her marriage.
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Old 09-20-2006, 08:46 PM
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The fact that she has removed a breast, he doesn't love her anymore. But this could be replaced, there are some special surgery with is done for such cases.

I think from the very begining he did not really love her. She cannot just let him go easily like that. After all it's her husband, he can't just wake up in the morning and say he don't love her anymore and decide to leave her.

This is not acceptable. As his wife she should defend her marriage.
But this could be replaced??? The point is that he should love her with one breast or no breasts if that was the case.
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Old 09-20-2006, 10:07 PM
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If he doesn't love her with one breast then he never loved her at all. I cannot believe the way people betray their loved ones, poor lady.... My prayers are with you.
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Old 09-21-2006, 06:29 PM
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Poor her! The husband seems so cheap. Does it mean that he loved the wife only for her body? This is a time when the wife needed the husband's support the most, and he deserted her! Seems that he forgot his marriage vows! Whats the use of maintaining such a relationship! Better let him go
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Old 09-22-2006, 06:10 AM
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In two words I would say the hubby is wrong. !
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Old 09-24-2006, 11:44 AM
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My friend's cousin and her husband had a happy marriage. But one day she discovered she had breast cancer. She had to get an operation for that. Then she had her treatment after. Fortunately she survived te disease. However, she told my friend that husband doesn't feel attracted to her anymore now that she only has one breast. She confronted him when she felt something was he was not that cozy with her and he admitted about it. Now she said that she still loves him but if he doesn't love anymore, maybe she should just let him go.
It''s your cousin who needs attention and support during this horrible period!
She should tell him if he would have liked her to react like that if he was in such a position!!!
Men are so much of pigs !!!!
She should tell him to get lost!!
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Old 09-25-2006, 03:47 PM
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Jordane is right.this man is such a jerk.After going through such a difficult time you cannot just let your wife down like that.He is so cheap
I think that the wife will better off without him.
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