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Old 07-07-2006, 09:38 AM
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My cousin and her husband decided to stop working to concentrate on their business. But suddenly the business isn't working so well because of some competition. She's thinking maybe she should work in an office again, but her husband might think that she's backing out on their decision. What should she do?
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Old 07-26-2006, 12:06 PM
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She only think that he might react like that, she can't be sure.

Another thing, there is nothing bad to starting working in the office since they both know that the business is not really flourished. I guess if the hubby a person who is really down to earth he would welcome this idea and the move from his wife. Coz she is very pro-active and she is not waiting until things get worst then she would seek a job. She is taking her precaution.
She is very wise and her husband should see this into that angle too.
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Old 08-09-2006, 12:00 PM
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well its not a question of backing out or not...its just to be on the safe side.business is not reliable so we never knows what may happen..i would advice her to start going to office again and when she comes back to work, she can help the husband with the business..the if the husband is understanding enough, he will support the wife...do the couple have children!!!
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Old 08-17-2006, 09:53 AM
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The question here is not what she should do, but it is how can she help her husband to contribute to the expenses, because of the poor situation of the business! And this is not called backing out of the decision, it is only a help.
Why should her husband not agree with her???
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Old 08-30-2006, 12:52 PM
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Should talk to her husband and see in which way can she help him out. Only then she would know if her husband would like her decision or not, there is nothing to be worried in this, you are doing all this to help him only and why should he be think bad about it?
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Old 09-09-2006, 01:26 PM
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They should sit down and talk.They no the financial condition of their family and business like anyone else.If the need arise the husband should release the wife to go to work.It is no matter of backing on her decision anymore but mere common sense.
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Old 09-12-2006, 02:34 PM
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I think that she should make her husband understand that she still believes in the business but that they have to be practical.If they need money and the business is not profitable then it will be better to find a job.May be she could try a part-time one.
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Old 09-14-2006, 11:38 AM
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She is only thinking of helping him, and i am sure her husband would be happy and less tensed about the house expenses when he would learn that his wife will be helping him financially! Isn't that great? So, there's nothing to be worried about it.
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