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Old 07-07-2006, 06:45 AM
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My friend broke up with his girlfriend because he thought she was cheating on him. He did not listen to her explanation. He just told her what he thought and walked away. Then he saw the guy with his girlfriend and his girlfriend together. It was really the guy and the other girl who was a couple. And his girlfriend was only their friend. He tried getting back with her but she didn't want to anymore. He regrets not trusting his girlfriend. Now he said he lost the girl he loved most.
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Old 07-07-2006, 08:22 AM
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Well he should have thought about it before treating her lke a b...and leaving her on her own. That's all he deserves!! He could have let her explain the situation and be assured that he was right or wrong before giving up to his selfish attitude. he should be happy of the consequences now. And i think he should be happy the girl wasn't me for he wouldhave been enduring a very bad time!!
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Old 07-11-2006, 11:45 AM
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that's all he deserved for being so cruel and not trusting in her faithfulness!!
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Old 07-14-2006, 07:52 AM
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that's all he deserved for being so cruel and not trusting in her faithfulness!!
i don't think he really deservs what's happening to him yupi, cause maybe he was plain sure that he was cheating on her, he was wrong not to listen to her but still, put yourself in his situation...
if she doesn't want her to come back well there ain't much he can do, he can try to get to herf riends and tell them about waht happened and how much he loves her, maybe she'll listen to them.
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Old 07-14-2006, 08:57 AM
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Everyone makes mistakes..he did too. Why blame him for that so much? Well, if the girl does not want him back, just too bad for him. But it happens not to trust, but breaking up..wel, that was impulsive. They could have talked about it, and she would have proven her loyalty to him. But he still has a chance, I think he should try winning her back with love, faith and total regrets for his silly mistake. But if it doesnt work out, he has to get over her, otherwise he'll be stuck. Wish him good luck.
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Old 07-14-2006, 08:58 AM
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you have to be real sure about something before going straight to the person and break up!!!
now what? he expect that she accepts him back just like that????
if he really wants her back then he can try what wannano has suggested!!!
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Old 07-17-2006, 08:24 AM
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He was so jealous when he saw her with another guy that he broke up with her...it was very stupid of him not to listen to whatever his girlfriend has to say!! he didn't trust her and now he wants her trust again!! maybe he can try but if she still doesn't want to, he better let go of her!!
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Old 07-18-2006, 01:06 PM
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no trust=no relationship. for any relationship to exist a little bit of trust needs to be there. without trust you cnt even say that you are someone's partner.like in this case, i am sure he is feeling rotten for what he did. but sad to say, he should have at least given her the chance to explain and justify herself!
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Old 07-19-2006, 08:06 AM
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Well if he can't trust her..then she did the right thing!! don';t know when he's going to accuse her again of being unfaithful when she wasn't!! better learn to control his jealousy and ego before going into a relationship!!
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Old 07-19-2006, 08:23 AM
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He had the right to break up since he was sure she was having an affair, i don't think the girl would have stayed with him if SHE knew that he was aving an affair!!!

he gotta talk to her about what had happened and the reasons why he broke up, she must understand him by putting herself in his shoes!
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