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07-04-2006, 12:12 AM
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My friend likes to go out with friends or sometimes alone. Once there was this really attractive girl who hit on him. At first he was just being friendly but she was persuasive in a subtle way, so he gave in to temptation. Now he is feeling guilty and wants to unburden himself by telling his wife about it. But he remembered what she told him before, that if she ever caught him cheating she will leave permanently. So he thinks maybe he should not tell her after all, he will just bear it on his conscience.
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07-05-2006, 12:27 AM
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It's his choice. Maybe his wife will be true to her word so in that case, he must keep his indiscretion to himself.
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07-10-2006, 11:07 AM
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I'd like to repeat the same thing I tell people here if they want to keep a secret and move on without anybody knowing about it...
what the guy should do is to write down everything he wants to tell his wife, fold the paper, then he should burn the paper he wrote on... this signifies that he's forgetting whatever he wrote on the paper and he'll move on without having anything of it...
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07-11-2006, 10:28 AM
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Well, maybe he should keep it to himself. I just hope she will not find out about it.
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09-10-2006, 04:29 PM
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If he is sure that he will not cheat her wife again and that will never come into the ears of her wife I think that he will be better off not to tell his wife about it given the warning.
However I am not too supportive of this decision I prefer the truth.
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10-14-2006, 11:40 AM
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hi lori20.Hope that you are fine.I think that it is better to tell the wife the truth.It is not easy to keep such a big lie for a long time.I think that it will be better off for the guy to tell his wife and seek forgiveness.I think that being frank could make it much easier to forgive.
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11-13-2006, 11:14 AM
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The thing with conscience is that it reminds you about your actions faster than you can imagine!! If he is able to live with it on his conscience forever, good ...for him! But in his place I would have been honest to her, and honest to myself. This is also somehow unloyal to want to "keep" his wife. He cheats and he wants to keep the woman even if the thing on his conscience could kill him!! Well that's a choice...
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11-22-2006, 06:26 AM
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if he remembered what his wife had already told him before and warned him about cheating then why did he do that to her???????? he should have put that thing in his mind. had he remembered it he would not have faced this dilema today. hiding this from his wife would mean cheating again. i believe that he should tell it to his wife and tell her that he is sorry about it and wants a second chance.
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