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Old 07-02-2006, 09:35 AM
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My friend can't understand herself. She was really in love with her boyfriend. They are still doing the things they did since the beginning. Even if they have been together for 3 years, they still dated and spent time together. But she said somehow the thrill has gone down. She's asking, why is she feeling this way? Is it possible that is was not love after all?
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Old 09-01-2006, 06:16 AM
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Fortunately they are not married, otherwise they would have gone for a divorce!
It happens sometimes when a person is bored with everything, routine life, work, and even partner, so it will all depend on the couple, of how they live their life, what are their objectives and plan to do in the future!
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Old 09-01-2006, 10:02 AM
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The thrill has gone down becoz the relationship has become monotonous. They both need to work together and make the relationship work out again. This happens, even in married couples this situation is very common. They have to go out to different places, doing things which don't normally does. This would break the monotony and this add some fun in the relationship
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Old 09-06-2006, 08:44 AM
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The relationship has gone flat. Dating for 3 years ! They need to add some more spices to it now, they need to get married, this would make a huge change and hopefully things would get better.

Get married, have children, built up a family.
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Old 09-08-2006, 06:38 AM
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I think Liza is right, they get just go on dating for more years now, they should settle down together.

Coz once they got married, there would be more things to come, they would be more challenge and things won't be the same like it is now.
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Old 09-12-2006, 09:26 AM
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For sure after 3 years of dating the thrill would go down. It's good for taking time to get married, to know each other but the danger is that when the relationship starts becoming empty. Now, they might happen that they break up coz there is nothing left in the relationship and they wouldn't find any interest to work it out again.
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Old 09-14-2006, 03:22 PM
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why dont people here cant bear to live a stable life.
stability is the most important thing in life i believe.
she should be happy that things are stable but she is not.
well if she wants to bring some thrill in her life maybe she should try doing some new things with her bf.
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Old 09-24-2006, 12:26 PM
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If your friend feels that way, it's sure that somewhere somehow, something has gone wrong!!
If there's no more passion, why being together, she should ask herself this question and please do no continue a relationship without love...
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Old 09-25-2006, 03:52 PM
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The problem is that they are doing things that they did since the beginning.It has become a boring relationship.They should put life back in it.
Do some things that they never did together to change the atmosphere.
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Old 10-07-2006, 03:24 PM
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Hi Brendon.Miamia is right.They should do some new activities to rekindle the flame.Many couples do this error.Before marriage they are so romantic and happy but once married they let their marriage die in a boring manner.
I thing that they should take some urgent measures to save their marriage.
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