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Old 07-02-2006, 01:00 AM
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Her husband was a player. When they got married, he reformed or so she thought. Then recently, she has been hearing from her friends that her husband is at his game again. When she confronted him, he never admitted. Now she's confused who to believe. Should she listen to what her friends told her or have faith on her husband?
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Old 07-02-2006, 10:44 AM
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have a middleman in this problem... preferably a common friend who can get the dirt for you... of course the husband will get suspicious and deny it at first but eventually he'll give in...
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Old 07-03-2006, 12:22 AM
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She should try asking him a few times. If she gets the same answer, maybe she should give him the benefit of the doubt. But she has to be watchful for possible signs of cheating.
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Old 07-05-2006, 12:33 AM
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She must go deeper in her inquiry and go with her instincts.
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Old 09-11-2006, 02:36 PM
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she must not doubt her husband listening to her friends. she must at first try to see to what extent this is true as if its not true then she will be accusing her husband for nothing and create problems. if it is true then she should react and talk to him about it and ask him why he is doing all this.
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Old 09-15-2006, 03:37 PM
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I think that she must talk frankly to him and if the need arises confront him with the saying of the friends.Before that she should try to find out that whether the information given by the friend are true or not.
I think that this is the best solution to know the truth.
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Old 09-25-2006, 08:24 AM
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If i were you, i wouldn't believe it till i saw it myself.
If i heard it from someone else, i might not believe it totally, but i would start watching out for signs, the signs normally should be his being preoccupied, not wanting to spend much time at home, always coming up with the excuses to go out.
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Old 09-25-2006, 09:03 AM
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Of course the hubby would deny it. She needs proof and strong evidence without which she can consider that the battle is lost beforehand. Refusal to believe until proof is given is a rational position.
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Old 10-14-2006, 11:37 AM
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Hi ericsson.Hope that you are fine.I agree with Jolanda that you should not believe something unless you have proof.Sometimes there are people who take pleasure in destroying relationship by telling lies.
I think that she should take time to gain more information.
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Old 12-04-2006, 05:02 AM
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Hi there, navini has got a very good idea here. When confronting them you will have a clearer idea of who is lying to you, you'll feel the one who seems very much more embarassed than the other/s. You 'll see who prefers not going etc.
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