no he's not... he's keeping something from his wife who should know as much as she can about his husband... but if he plans to keep this to himself and not have it haunt him the best thing he can do is to write it in a piece of paper, fold it, and burn it... it should signify that he's repented his sin and will move on...

He must tell his wife about it and ask forgiveness. He has better chance of getting it than if his wife finds out from others.

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i thinh that whatever he is doing is absolutely wrong as if his wife would have done it then he would have followed what he had said. then why is he scared of facing the reality now. i believe that everything is supposed to be equal in a couple so he better be an honest man and tell her wife what he has done.

i thinh that whatever he is doing is absolutely wrong as if his wife would have done it then he would have followed what he had said. then why is he scared of facing the reality now. i believe that everything is supposed to be equal in a couple so he better be an honest man and tell her wife what he has done.

Why did he cheated on his wife ? Was it on a one-night stand or is he still cheating.

I guess if he does not want to go any further in cheating her wife, then, he might not tell her anything but he promise himself not to do this again.

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That guy seems strange. On the first instance, he warns his wife not to be unfaithful, then he ends up being unfaithful. That guy seems sick. Well, i would advise that he tells the truth to his wife and then bear the consequences. For sure, the wife will be angry, hurt and so on. Just asking - why was he being iunfaithful?

I think that he should tell the wife the truth about what he did regardless of what he said before.It is the only way that he could feel better.
I feel there is a greater chance of the wife forgiving him because he has confessed his fault.

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There is a great chance indeed, but not much if the wife remembers what he said to her as kekss stated. He clearly said that he didn't want her to cheat on him and that he wouldn't forgive her, the best thing would be to do the same sin't it?
Well, that confirms what is frequently said, that people who are obssessed that their partner cheat on him are always the one cheating ...

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ohh he should definitely tell his wife.. he's got to be truthful at least if not loyal..how sad that he was exigeant to his wife about cheating and ended doing it ... very low of him.. at least he's got a conscience..would just teach him if the wife leaves him!