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Old 06-19-2006, 12:28 PM
Monty Monty is offline
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Hi, i am that painfully shy guy who introduced himself before, my problem is that im much in love with a girl of 17 years old, am sure everyone must think that im crazy, i cannot talk to the girl! Im so perplexed about this, is there a way out??
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Old 06-19-2006, 12:52 PM
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Hi Monty, you are not crazy and you are not alone. But there is no cure unless you come out and share the problem with people who can help!
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Old 06-19-2006, 12:55 PM
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Don't be so shy Monty, i expect that the girl must have noticed your love anyway, but put her clearly in the picture for a start! Im sure it will work out!
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Old 06-19-2006, 12:57 PM
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You can begin a campaign to make you feel more at ease with yourself. Please consult the youth guidance and you will get proper assistance on how to cure your shyness.
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Old 06-21-2006, 12:27 PM
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if u stay shy like this and don't a move to change, u might loose her. so c'mon try to overcome ur shyness, say few words to her. just don't it don't think too much
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Old 06-23-2006, 10:38 AM
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well before you loose her try to explain your feelings to her. i see that as the only way
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Old 06-26-2006, 08:54 AM
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Helo Monty, just wanna wish you luck..you've got to tell her how you feel coz she'll never know and then you'll regret all your life for not having showed your true feelings! Wat's the worse thing that can happen?? well, she'll tell you no..then you know you'll have to move forward..but maybe she likes you and is just waiting for you to make the ultimate move.,,good luck
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Old 06-26-2006, 12:44 PM
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Helo Monty, just wanna wish you luck..you've got to tell her how you feel coz she'll never know and then you'll regret all your life for not having showed your true feelings! Wat's the worse thing that can happen?? well, she'll tell you no..then you know you'll have to move forward..but maybe she likes you and is just waiting for you to make the ultimate move.,,good luck
what she said is right...you must gather courage and tell her...id she agrees tehn hapy for you if not just too bad
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Old 06-26-2006, 12:48 PM
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I know many shy people who actually ended up talking to the one they love, so why nt u? you can do it, you are just underestimating yourself. Nothing adverse will happen when you will talk to her: just walk up and say HI. Do not hesitate. The more time you will take, the more there will be a chance that you will be turned down to a loser= and you dont want that I suppose. Talking is the easiest thing when you have "genuine" feelings for that person..you will see how words wil flow easily. Good luck!
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Old 06-26-2006, 12:53 PM
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Hi Monty! Isn't a place or a domain where you feel at ease? I mean something or someplace where you feel confident? If there is, it would be better to let this girl see this part of you...if you lack character, even if you could have pleased her, you will waste all your chances...you won't be able to ask her out if you don't find some confidence in yourself...and the only one who can achieve that is YOU...you know what people say...you only need a reason...and I guess you've found yours!

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