ah but were you ever happy, ever in love?

in love? Is there such a thing. Love i think is overrated. Sure i cared about both of them. But the question should be did they love me?

Hello Nick,

Relax... Why be so angry on people who never cared for you?
The pleasure of love is in giving and not expecting. If your wife has cheated you and put you into trouble, thats because she got something better. Marriages fail and take the recourse of divorce only when both the partners fail to perform well, psychologically as well as physically. Did you ever try to find out what prompted your wife to take away those things and leave you? Forget about those things that you have given her.

Start afresh and remember, divorce is never a solution. And keeping anger closed within your heart can be harmful for your body as well. Can you not think that your car and the ring got lost?
Smile and play the tune of life.... it sounds melodious and not noise if you have a pair of ear.

Keep living!!!!

Nancy

I regret not proposing to my lady in time. I was in this Oxford University then and really had a crush on this girl. But as I was thinking on when and how to propose her another guy took her away from me
I still regret for being soo late.

It is one thing to get annoyed if wife has taken away car or sofa. Other is to think about. Apart from light hearted joke that wife has taken lot from you, why don’t you think why you gave. .Or think what is left over for you.
Listen buddy, when she was your wife, she was enjoying all these and more. she lived with you shared with you and had fun all along .Don’t tell me you did not know what will happen in divorce and after. or your wise lawyer friend did not tell you? Sad.
It is natural, you have to give some from common kitty, you and wife shared. so what. Had she been earning bread for home , she would have given. be a man and tell her to keep friendship and can take more if she needs in future. You are man. Let me tell you if you are generous, believe me she will reciprocate, if not immediately, later.
Jokes apart, think of life after divorce. You will again need woman. why and what you will do then? darling be bold and go ahead.

Look at in in the bright side all those things can be bought again...your away from her and that is what shoudl count be happy do things go put, have fun and get back intot the limelight....dont live your life on what ifs----just move on ...there is a fish in the sea for all of us....

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Sorry to hear your regrets. Learn from them and move forward- its all you can do. No use living your life with regrets, right?

Please, dont live your life focussing on your regrets- it wont do any good.

I agree. DOn't just think of the things you regret. There must be some fun and happy times you've had. OR just focus on the lessons learned in your relationship or break up. And don't make the same mistakes again. Move on with your life.