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Old 06-18-2006, 05:45 AM
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My friend has cheated her husband once. It was about 3 years ago. She got drunk at their reunion and slept with her ex boyfriend. But it was clearly a one night stand for them when it happened. She went on living like it never happened and became a good wife again. But whenever she remembers what she did she feels guilty. She wants to tell her husband but although he is nice and loving, she doesn't think he'll forgive her if he finds out. What should she do?
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Old 06-18-2006, 01:47 PM
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This is a difficult situation because if she tells him, there's a risk he going to separate from her. But some people also rather not know, so she can also keep it a secret and continue to be a good wife. She must never do it again.
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Old 06-18-2006, 05:21 PM
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for now keeping it to herself is not good since she's feeling guilty... I say she right whatever she wants to say in paper and burn it... symbolizing that she is forgetting everything that happened that night...
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Old 06-19-2006, 07:42 AM
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she knew she has made a mistake and feeling guilty so it won't do it again. It would be better if she don't say anything to her hubby.
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Old 06-19-2006, 07:55 AM
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I agree with the others too. I think it will be better if she still keep it as a secret, 3 years passed since she cheats on him and she really regrets it and never do it again. She's still feeling guilty about it, but if she tells it to him I think there is a risk she lose him...
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Old 06-19-2006, 10:35 AM
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this is lying. what if her husband tells he something like this tomorrow, or that she learns of such a thing about her husband? how would she feel?the husband, may undertand and even forgive, but she has to confess it up to him, before another person ends up doing it. then it will really get from bad to worse.
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Old 06-19-2006, 10:49 AM
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There is no need to say anything to her hubby. She has made a mistake, good or bad, forget it.
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Old 06-19-2006, 12:28 PM
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She already know what will happen if she tells it to her husband so it's up to her. It can be a secret and maybe he will never know about it!! If she is happy and loves him...so just stay the same!!
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Old 06-20-2006, 09:49 AM
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I agree. Since she already knows the result, she should just stay as she is now and not tell her husband.
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Old 06-20-2006, 12:57 PM
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maybe she just needs to shut up and not mention about this thing. its not good but to save her own skin and relationship she has to, it was unintentional and she didnt repeat it so its ok.
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