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Old 06-16-2006, 04:58 PM
luksa29 luksa29 is offline
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Her husband told her that this will be the last time he will give her a chance to change. He wants my friend to learn everything a woman should do at the house. If she can't, he will leave her. Can a husband give a wife the last chance in this situation? I mean, he must accept her with no condition. What do you think?
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Old 06-18-2006, 05:24 PM
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If she's totally incompetent, I think she must try to learn these things. Some guys consider it important that their wives are capable of taking care of the household by themselves.
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Old 06-19-2006, 12:03 PM
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He doesn't have the right to give her a last chance!! When someone has his behavior its hard for someone else to change this person! So he has to give her all the time she needs to learn all that! That's not really love
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Old 06-19-2006, 12:12 PM
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this guy has some prefounded ideas about a wife in his head, may prove to be difficult to reform him. but he must know that a woman doesnt come in a package-including the wife mode, who knows how to entertain a house after marriage!
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Old 06-20-2006, 06:55 AM
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He doesn't deserve his wife!
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Old 06-20-2006, 07:48 AM
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He doesn't deserve his wife!
what is this? how can you judge someone you don't even know Sativa? we don't know the circumstances in which the husband is saying that to his wife! and we don't know how many last chances he might have given her already!!!
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Old 06-21-2006, 05:50 AM
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He can not talk about a "last chance" to his wife if he loves her, his wife is not his handmaid so he can not talk about last chance like she was paying to do that. He must give her time to know all this things about how to take care of the household because it's not so easy!!
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Old 06-21-2006, 06:37 AM
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a wife doesnt come ready made you know. my wife, when we got married didnt know a thing about householding. we never lived together before taht, so i was unaware of it.many time she made mistakes, and i got irritated but i understood that she wasnt used to this new role-i grew patient. now she is doing well. its not some trial and error thing that if she misses it many times she has to be kicked out, she is unfit.
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Old 06-21-2006, 07:37 AM
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This is not a good husband, if he married her he has to accept her as she is! Women are not slaves!!! this is extortion. She should tell him ok so im leaving you!!
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Old 06-21-2006, 05:52 PM
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you tell it cow lover!! :D...
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