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Old 04-30-2007, 05:57 AM
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my fiancee's children are still very young. Julian is going to be 5 soon and Mary is only 3. they do not know that i'm not their real mother. they call me mom and love me like they would love their mom. i have been bringing them up for 2 years now, so even i love them. in my eyes, they are my babies. but as time passes, i become worried that they might find out that i'm not their real mom. this might affect them a lot do you think i should tell them about it or let it be till hen they are a little older?
i would suggest you not to wait long, bcoz someone might tell them and not with any good intention.bcoz my sister is not my real sister, so when have learn it from my mum this has hurt me a lot. I realize that she has never love my sister that’s why she told me that.
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my fiancee's children are still very young. Julian is going to be 5 soon and Mary is only 3. they do not know that i'm not their real mother. they call me mom and love me like they would love their mom. i have been bringing them up for 2 years now, so even i love them. in my eyes, they are my babies. but as time passes, i become worried that they might find out that i'm not their real mom. this might affect them a lot do you think i should tell them about it or let it be till hen they are a little older?
You should not wait too long before you decide to tell them, you should tell them when they are at a tender age however at the proper time not too early nor too late!!!
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I’m sure that even when they grow up, they won’t reject you. If you shower them with love and treat them as your own children, they will feel it. As they grow up, you tell them that maybe you’re not her biologic mother but you love them just as much and maybe more. I’m pretty sure you have nothing to worry about.
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