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Old 06-16-2006, 07:41 AM
Shinny Shinny is offline
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My boyfriend of one year is quite inactive. We never do anything unless I ask him to take me out. He's always at my place for all meals unless I tell him I want to eat out that night; then we go to eat out.

He just sits and watches TV after dinner unless I tell him I want to go and see a film or something, and then we'll go and see a film. I've talked to him about this, and he says he wants to change and make the effort to plan activities in our relationship, but it's been one year and nothing has really changed.

Can I expect him to change, or is there something I need to do to make him change once and for all?
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Old 06-16-2006, 07:43 AM
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ur boyfriend is a crouch potato !!!!!!!
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Old 06-16-2006, 07:58 AM
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I'm not sure you can expect him to change...I would never tolerate a relationship with a lazy guy like that!! Just tell him that he promised he would make an effort and until now you can't see anything and you are fed up with that. You are living a boring relationship with him!
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Old 06-16-2006, 08:49 AM
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i understand that u might b going through shinny. Threaten him that he doen't change u would leave him. Make him move his fat ass.!
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Old 06-16-2006, 11:07 AM
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i am a very helpful guy.i always do many things to help my girl and her twin ( i dnt like the twin!) i organise nights out, rent movies, prepare dinners for her....then why she makes me so confused with her twin
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Old 06-23-2006, 05:20 PM
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I don't think your boyfriend is going to change. He's naturally like that. It's either you accept him as like that or you move on and hope to find someone better.
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Old 06-23-2006, 06:58 PM
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Maybe he's the follower type. He just goes with the flow and seldom initiates anything. If that is not the guy for, you have to think twice about staying with him.
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Old 06-24-2006, 12:43 AM
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Tell him to change, if ha can't and it's making you feel discontented and unhappy, you have to break up with him.
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Old 06-24-2006, 01:14 AM
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You should tell him your relationship will die out if he does not initiate things. If this does not make him move, maybe he is not motivated enough. Maybe he does not really love you. If that's the case, you have to just break up.
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Old 06-26-2006, 11:52 AM
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Try to be lazy for a week and see what he'll do. Maybe he's just not doing anything because you do the planning or inviting anyway. If he still remains the same, he's not concerned for you but for himslef only I guess.
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