u wouldn't know beforehand, try one and u see.

ask people or friends. they could refer u to someone who has a good reputation whom according to them is good. U may also search on the net. the might be loads of info

Their are ads in all the newspapers around you just have to pick one up, call the guy/gal and see what he/she tells you. If it good sounds to you then go for it

I guess it's trial and error. You screen them on your first visit.

a good marriage counsellor is the one who is going to make your marriage work well and stop making you see that divorce is the only option

I guess you have to find someone whom you find at ease to talk with.

Well there are loads of ways to find out,,,why not ask family members and friends to help...there are also many authorities who would be able to help,,like the social services!

you can search on the net here is a link i find for you http://www.familylife.co.za/Marriage/marriage2.htm

trust me marriage counsellor has never been able to save my marriage. I used to have marriage marriage counselling for 1 whole year when things started to degenerate in my relationship, but not much could be done. I got divorce.