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Old 06-14-2006, 10:24 AM
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Hey girls and boys!!!
When you forgive your b/f or g/f when they cheated on you only once, how can you trust he or she again after that??????
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Old 06-14-2006, 11:46 AM
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the first time, you had to learn how to trust them...well the second time it's the same. you just have to learn how to trust your partner again. it might take time but if you feel you are not just blindly trusting a perpetual cheater, then it's worth learning how to trust again
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Old 06-15-2006, 06:22 AM
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Sometimes when you place your trust in someone, you will be wrong, and there will be disastrous consequences, like in this case, he cheated.

Yet as bad as that may be, it would be even worse to never trust at all.

Without trust, without faith, we are merely machines, disinterested and unable to truly invest ourselves in anything worthwhile. With no trust, the world is a cold, harsh and excruciatingly lonely place.

The best way to know when to trust and when not to trust is to be trustworthy yourself. Know what it is like to uphold the trust of others, and it will help you to understand whom you yourself can trust.

Though it certainly pays to be careful, it also is important to be able to trust.

Don't give your trust frivolously or irresponsibly, but do give it. For without trust, there is really nothing that is worth protecting.

If he does it once, i can give him a second chance coz everybody can make a mistake.
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Old 06-15-2006, 08:21 AM
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once a cheater, always a cheat-i could never trust somebody who cheats on me. ill just close that door forever!

if i let him come back to me, then i am the foolish one, who is letting him cause me more pain.
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Old 06-15-2006, 08:28 AM
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why the heck would you want to trust somebody again?!
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Old 06-15-2006, 12:05 PM
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You can't that's it So no more question
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Old 06-15-2006, 03:44 PM
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there is no guarantee about giving your trust back to someone who cheated on you... but what you can do is take him back for a while with no trust and see if how he plans to win it back...
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Old 06-16-2006, 06:19 AM
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Your love for that person will make it easy for you to forget his mistakes..but still deep inside you will feel insecure....coz he has cheated on you once he may do it again
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Old 06-16-2006, 01:20 PM
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You have to decide to and begin giving him a chance again. In time, trust will be restored.
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Old 06-16-2006, 04:30 PM
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it all depends on how your partner will work for your trust... if he's serious or not only you can see how far he can go...
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