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the first time, you had to learn how to trust them...well the second time it's the same. you just have to learn how to trust your partner again. it might take time but if you feel you are not just blindly trusting a perpetual cheater, then it's worth learning how to trust again
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Sometimes when you place your trust in someone, you will be wrong, and there will be disastrous consequences, like in this case, he cheated.
Yet as bad as that may be, it would be even worse to never trust at all. Without trust, without faith, we are merely machines, disinterested and unable to truly invest ourselves in anything worthwhile. With no trust, the world is a cold, harsh and excruciatingly lonely place. The best way to know when to trust and when not to trust is to be trustworthy yourself. Know what it is like to uphold the trust of others, and it will help you to understand whom you yourself can trust. Though it certainly pays to be careful, it also is important to be able to trust. Don't give your trust frivolously or irresponsibly, but do give it. For without trust, there is really nothing that is worth protecting. If he does it once, i can give him a second chance coz everybody can make a mistake. |
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