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Old 06-14-2006, 05:51 AM
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Is it my fault if am poor??? Actually I got married since one year although am poor, my wife accepted my condition she said love is more powerful I don’t know what the hell she is talking about now…she said she want comfort she is fed up living in a small house…I work very hard and I always try my level best to satisfy her wants... at least she does not die of hunger was just in a cyber and found this forum..hope I can get help here…
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Old 06-14-2006, 06:45 AM
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your wife is mean. she says she loves you and that love is more powerful but she wants comfort. if she really loves you she must have to stop looking for comfort. she knew how you were befor you married her. what she wants now?
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Old 06-14-2006, 09:07 AM
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what you had in mind when you married her? you know marrying involves a lot more costs. and that wives can be demanding. ther eis a minimum of things that you have to proide to her aprt from basic needs, you know that.
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Old 06-14-2006, 10:53 AM
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y don't she contribute to the house expenses. Ask her to find a job so that financially u could more comfortable. Coz she has to undersand there is no comfort without money. And u r doing ur best by working so hard, but unfortunately its not enough to fill the house with these comfort she is dreaming of. So i guess that this would have been fair if she could find out a job and help each other.
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Old 06-14-2006, 11:46 AM
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maybe she comes from a well off family and is used to comfort and luxuries. its not her fault. she will need time to adjus to the present status of ehr husband and maybe cn even help him out by taking up a job.but give her time to adjust first.
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Old 06-14-2006, 12:16 PM
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did you remind her about her high-and-mighty speech before she married you? please remind her. and if she pretends to be suffering from amnesia, then just ignore her. find yourself a better job, do NOT share your money with her. let her fend for herself till she understands the value of money. and if she's not working, for God's sake, tell the woman to GET A JOB!
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Old 06-20-2006, 12:31 PM
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Yeah, do remind her. She knew what she was getting into when she married you. The best she can do is try to help instead of complain.
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Old 06-20-2006, 01:08 PM
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She should not complain because she knew what you had to offer and she still chose to marry you.
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Old 06-22-2006, 06:45 AM
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well its not your fault if you were born in a poor family but you can make effort to climb up the social ladder...
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Old 06-22-2006, 03:57 PM
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That's another thing you can do. But if you are already trying to do that, she should be patient and try to support you instead.
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