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Old 06-13-2006, 02:07 PM
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My friend and her boyfriend got married without much money. The guy had a job while my friend was still looking for one at that time. Their earning was barely enough for the two of them. But they decided to go through the wedding. They thought that things would just shape up for them. They just believed they will just have to make do with whatever they had. Now after 7 years of being married, they both have jobs and they have two kids already. Still just getting by but happy it seems. I guess the lack of financial security does not have to result in problems. I'm not sure if they were right to take the chance but if it's working for them, who's to say they were wrong to start a marriage without financial stability. What do you think?
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Old 06-14-2006, 02:30 AM
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I think they got lucky... it's a very competitive world out there and if they managed to pull it through then I guess it's just luck that they got it...
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Old 06-14-2006, 12:23 PM
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what works for soem doesn't work for others fairgo. we shouldn't generalise such cases like this because it's just a freak of nature
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Old 06-15-2006, 06:49 AM
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same as we don't need to a heavy bank account to start a relationship, we don't need to be rich to get married. If we want stability, we will find it, and when we do things together it is certainly stronger. The couple has proved it
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Old 06-20-2006, 12:24 PM
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I guess a couple would need love, perseverance and a little luck to survive and thrive.
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Old 06-20-2006, 01:10 PM
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I agree. Sometimes we need a luck for our careers to take off. But the most important ingredient is always love.
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Old 06-29-2006, 03:11 AM
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Yeah, they must first have love and perseverance; and with luck they will be successful.
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Old 07-02-2006, 02:26 PM
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I hope people who start out with less ends up like them.
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Old 08-17-2006, 12:26 PM
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I agree. Sometimes we need a luck for our careers to take off. But the most important ingredient is always love.
Do you really think so???
The ladies give me the impression that where there's no money, there is no love!!!
This is true, i am not bluffing guys
Why are the women never satisfy with only love, they want more and more and more???
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Old 08-30-2006, 11:54 AM
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This has been proved that lack of money cannot be a reason for a divorce in a relationship, it all depends on the individual himself and they way he thinks and see things, some get perplexed not having money, some think money can buy all happiness, some think money would help in a relationship! These are negative thinkings which are considered bad!
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