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06-13-2006, 07:07 AM
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I met my husband some years ago, and we fell in love. He told me before we marry that he had a steady girlfriend, but they had broken up already.he never said why, I also didn’t ask.we got married and life was going well for us. One week back, I was out shopping I saw my husband with his ex girlfriend. They did not see me. But I was so shocked I almost faintd, and I am pregnant! Since then at home I am always sad, I fear to tell him I saw him with her.whe he ask why I am sad, I say it is the pregnancy. I don’t know what is the relationship they stil have.are they friends? He never told me he is friends with her, he had said all had finished, he doesn’t see her.but why now? Should I tell him? I am afraid that he is cheating me.why would he do that? We are happy together? He s so happy to become father.i loved him so much that even if he betrays me, I don’t think that I will be able to leave him, or divorce him. I want our marriage to work.i am so confused. What can I do? The doctor told me no tto take any tensions, it is not god for baby. But what I saw is putting me under stress. I love my husband a lot, will i be a fool if I forgive his mistake?
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06-13-2006, 08:27 AM
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i think its your pregnancy palying tricks on you. maybe he is innocent, why doubt him. well ,if you love him a lot, and even if he cheats you-once only, you can always accept him.but if he repeats, you have to do something about it, or else later on you will curse the whole male kind
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06-13-2006, 08:38 AM
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talk to him, tell him tht you saw him with someone but you dnt know who it was...pretend that you didnt see the other person. dnt let him on the whole picture.see if he tells you exactly who he was with, then you can pursue by asking what he was doing with her, BUT if he lies that it was somebody other than the ex, then this should be enough to ring alarms that he is cheating!! why else would he hide!
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06-13-2006, 10:06 AM
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06-13-2006, 10:25 AM
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Maybe you should just ask him waht he was doing and where he was during that time you saw him with her. Ask him innocently, like just sharing your day with each other. If he says, he was in another place, there's a reason to be suspicious. You must ask him directly if he's having an affair then. Tell him to you the truth anyway, you still love him no matter what. You just need to know.
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06-13-2006, 10:31 AM
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so you plan to stick with him even if he chaeted once! thats so sweet of you. many wouldnt even be inthe house right now, after having seen the guy with the ex! in that case, why do you want to find out what he was doing with her?you say you cnt leave him right? ....could it be.... that...you are...confused?
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06-13-2006, 11:47 AM
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a cheater once will always remain a cheater. if you accept him, he will always be too sure of himself and his luck that you will accept him no matter how many times he cheats. you should rethink about this thing. and try not to worry too much, its not good for the baby's health
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06-13-2006, 12:07 PM
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you must think 'bout yourself and your baby.
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06-13-2006, 12:43 PM
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there is no other way than facing your husband. he is the one you saw! and tell him you saw him with the ex... wait for his explanations. but one thing i would like to tell you is that if he has cheated on you then you must definitely not give him a second chance.
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