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06-13-2006, 05:35 AM
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My friend was going out with a guy since 8 years and they never got married because they are both against marriage. Her boyfriend just told her that he realized he was gay since 1 year and he can't stay with her anymore because he has a boyfriend and love him. She's shocked, very depressed because she thought he was the one with who she would be for the rest of her life. Now everything is destroyed, all her project she has with him. She looks very weak, she lost some weight, doesn't smile anymore, doesn't eat... Im doing my best to get her out of this but its very difficult. Any advices you can give me to see her enjoying life as she used to do ???
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06-13-2006, 07:57 AM
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I can understand that she's depressed, love is not always amazing. She has to be strong. Does she really want to be like that all her life? Destiny decided that her realtionship would end like that but it doesn't mean that she won't find love anymore. Why don't she keep all her project in mind and doing it with someone else. She has to see some friends, go out meet some people, do some sports. You have to push her to do all this and then she will get better. Someone can't destroy her life because of someone. His ex now is happy so she has to do the same... it will take some times but she'll get over this.... she will realize herself that she has to get over him and begin e new life without him
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06-13-2006, 11:09 AM
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they were together 4 eight years and she never get a clue that he was gay ?
I really don't know how a gay should react towards a girl. But this sound a bit strange in the sense that he is gay y did he go out and pretend to love her for so many years. Mysterious !
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06-13-2006, 11:45 AM
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It's life, things like that does happen. She'll find a another who will make her life beautiful :)
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06-14-2006, 12:38 PM
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i think the guy is playing tricks on her... im sure he made that gay excuse up to break it off with her.... many guys come up with lame excuses like that ... it cnt be that after 8 years of being together wiht her he discovers he is GAY! this rings false to me, hey am a guy, i can understand the tactics...
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06-15-2006, 06:29 AM
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It is shocking but she has to accept it. It is good at least he had the courage to tell her about it well before they got married. Coz imagine if they go married and they she become aware about that shocking news. things would been even worst for her. Let him go !
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06-15-2006, 08:53 AM
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this is a wonderful thread for those who think that homosexuals are born that way!
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06-15-2006, 09:52 AM
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That must be hard to accept but it happens so now she has to get over him which is not gonna be easy but she has to accept it, she can't do anything else!
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