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06-12-2006, 01:13 PM
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Hi!! My parents are divorced since 15years because my dad was a very bad drunkard . My brother and I we tried our best to make him stop, we talked to him...we told him that we were fed up to see him like that everytime we come and see him! That's awful...but he never stopped!! What can i do now after 15years to put an end to this story???Help please...
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06-13-2006, 05:34 AM
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There is not much that you can do for the time being I think. If he does not want to change and that you have tried averything except putting a knife under his throat, then i think you let things go on the way they are.
Some people don't learn from there mistakes, nor listen to the other. Your father being an adult, you should let him... he is responsible of his choices...
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06-13-2006, 12:01 PM
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If you have tried your best to make him stop and he never did anything so I think that he has made his choice since very long time!! You don't have to feel guilty about that!!He is an adult and he choose to be a drunkard for all his life...so let him and just take care about your own life. But this is very sad.
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06-22-2006, 01:02 PM
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if i were in you rplace, i would leave him alone and live for my mother and brother or sister,,that doesn't mean when he is your dad he has the right to make your life a hell....or put him in a rehabilitation centre
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06-23-2006, 05:50 AM
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Its very hard to see one of your parents in this conditions. If he had always been a drunkard, its very difficult to make him stop specially if he's drinking since more than 15 years.. I think that nothing can make him stop, not even his children.. The only way would be that he realized by himself that its the moment to stop.
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07-31-2006, 10:34 AM
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You will get depressed by his reaction if you continue to talk to him and tell him to stop drinking. Better go away from him or get him admitted by force in a rehabilitation center.
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Life doesn't make sense sometimes. You can have everything in the world and you can just make stupid choices! That's just life...
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