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Old 06-12-2006, 12:56 PM
Peggy Peggy is offline
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I was married 10 years ago, have two lovely twin daughters by the name of Wendy & Wenda, they are six years old and away from me since six months. My wife ended our relation with a divorce for the reason that I was a drunkard. She didn’t even give me a chance to change and I swear that I would have done it if I knew that she would leave me cause I can’t stay without her! Now im been unable to concentrate on my work cause I miss them so much, what do you think, is it too late to get them back?
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Old 06-14-2006, 08:44 AM
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Six months!! But why did you let them go and keep away from them for so many months, you could have persuade ur wife to stay back on the condition that you would stop taking alcohol and you still have time to do it...
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Old 06-14-2006, 12:25 PM
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it is never too late my dear friend. it is a good thing that u have taken the great resolution to stop. plz call her and talk to her. i hope for u that if she hasn't find someone else, she might get back to u. do it before its too late
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Old 06-14-2006, 12:42 PM
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I hope u take out a very good lesson out of it. Even though i hope that u r back together.
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Old 06-14-2006, 12:48 PM
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im sure she must have told you that she would leave if you didnt stop drinking,you proberbly didnt think she would do it..well guess what!!!...get your life together and try become a father!
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Old 06-19-2006, 06:18 AM
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It's not too late but you should have take this decision before!!! But maybe six months is a good thing, because you can show her that you have really change and not drinking anymore. You want to be a good husband and father for your childrens! That you miss them a lot!!
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Old 06-23-2006, 06:27 AM
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I don't know if its too late to get her back, but you should have known that you rwife didn't like to see you drunk often. She maybe took this decision because of the kids!! Now try to show her that you changed and that you don't frink anymore !!
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Old 06-26-2006, 05:18 AM
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You can try to get them back but you have to make your self better first. Show them a better man and maybe your wife will trust you again.
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Old 06-26-2006, 12:56 PM
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come on man if you have really change don't wait go and talk to her show her the men she had love for 10 years and concentrate on your work bc if u became jobless she will never return.
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Old 06-26-2006, 01:00 PM
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If you are willing to change, which I hope you have by now, then show your wife that you have changed for the best. I hope that your wife is still single! Get her back if you still love her and your children. It could be too late otherwise.. Good luck! A tip: next time dont wait for your wife to tell you that she's leaving you because of your bad habit, but just do it..because you were conscious of what you were doing at that time, from now on: show maturity by being far-sighted.
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