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Old 06-12-2006, 12:36 PM
PrinceToad PrinceToad is offline
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i've been dating a divorced lady for some 6 months now. i wasn't dating her exclusively, wasdating other women at the same time and still am dating other women. i've always been in search of the perfect woman with whom i would want to spend my life and when i finally found her, well it was great! she was more than perfect, she went beyond my wildest dreams
but as time passed and our relationship became more serious, she finally told me that she had already been married once and was divorced. i was totally
my perfect one was perfect but she was divorced... that is simply not my idea of perfection. i know i could be wrong and she might still be the perfect one for me but i'm not so sure i'm the perfect one for her. how can i treat her right when i've never imagined marrying a divorcee?
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Old 06-13-2006, 12:09 PM
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wat's wrong with a divorcee.? Is she not allowed to find happiness again ?
Don't she has the right to love and start her life fresh again ?

Come on, think about these ?
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Old 06-13-2006, 12:32 PM
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y did she hide the truth to u. she should have tell u from the very begining before u go a long way in the relationship. I think she betray u
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Old 06-13-2006, 12:44 PM
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i married a divorcee and we are sharing such a wonderful together.
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Old 06-13-2006, 12:57 PM
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u already gone half way with her, r u going to drop her, which gives the impression that u never loved her !
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Old 06-14-2006, 10:58 AM
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wat's wrong with a divorcee.? Is she not allowed to find happiness again ?
Don't she has the right to love and start her life fresh again ?

Come on, think about these ?
of course she is entitled to all this and i have thought about it believe me. but i never imagined that one day i would marry a divorcee and on top of that she didn't tell me this first time itself. she waited till she was sure i was in love with her but maybe if i had known i would not have let myself get carried away....i somehow feel that she used me and trapped me
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Old 06-14-2006, 12:52 PM
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whats wrong with a divorecee..change your mentality...if you love her..then marry her..if not...if you think you won't digest that, then don;t go for it
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Old 06-15-2006, 10:27 AM
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Sooo...I can't see where is the problem if she was married before and now divorced...it show that she got experiences with men!!:) and for which reasons she divorced? Maybe she is perfect but her ex-husband wasn't!! If you love her and everything is going well so..I still can't see where is the problem!!
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Old 06-23-2006, 05:50 PM
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I guess she should have told you right away. But if you truly love her now, you should be willing to accept her as she is. She deserves to be happy too.
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Old 06-23-2006, 06:28 PM
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You have to give up your ideals if you really love her.
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