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i am milly. i am 20 yrs old. i want to tell about the thing i regret the most in my life. it was my parents getting divorce because of my foolishness. i was a very bad girl when i was younger, i used to run away from home a lot and came back after one week or more. my father always said that my mother was pampering me a lot and that she is the reason why i became such a brat. i would takl badly to them , shout at thme and never listen to their talks. my mother cried many times to me, but i was too much into my other life outside home that her tears had no effect on me. my father's family didnot like my mum and when i turned into a very bad girl, they accused my mum, they threw her out of the house and told my father to divorce her. my family is very traditional and conservative, they hate scandals, i was sent abroad to study and never saw my mum again. i later learnt that she has left the country. now i miss her a lot.and i regret that i made her suffer.i am at university now but i want to leave and go to look for my mother, i want to work, get moeny to find her.
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first thing you should know is that it's not your mom's fault that you grew up like that... I am curious though as to why you would run away all the time... was it because of them fighting?? or was it because you just wanted to go out for a while and come back a week later??
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Don't blame everything on yourself. It could have contributed but they were more responsible than you were. If your dad fought for their marriage, maybe he would not have permitted his family to throw her out. As to your behavior, I wonder what made you behave like that. Now that you realized your mistake, you can make it up to her. But make sure you don't ruin your future too. It will take some money to find her. Do not just leave your studies like that. Finish studies first and find yourself a job. In the meantime, you can find out what you can through her friends in your area. Maybe you can contact her through them.
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hi this is life my dear but u did realise ur mistake and doing what u have done before is not the reason 4 the divorce the pro is ur dad s family they are just "nut" n the blame is not ur /so cheer up sad-dave is right so come on finish it then go check 4 her
but crazy me does ur mum want u back or wouldn't it b simple without her in ur life n u in her (/what just asking) |
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I agree, perhaps this is what you should do. And about the divorce of your parents, it was not your fault. The problem was between your parents and the way your granparents meddled in their relationship.
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