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Old 06-12-2006, 12:28 PM
Phoenix_B Phoenix_B is offline
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My sister just got engaged, and the next day her b/f cheated on her!! That's awful!! Just the next they got engaged!!! she saw him with someone else but he doesn't know she saw him. So She broke up when he came back to my sister's appartment and he kept telling her that it wasn't him that she saw!!! She knows it was him she saw it!!! Now he can't stop calling her, txt msg to tell her to come back but the only thing that my sister want its to get over him quickly. I think that she took the best decision...
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Old 06-12-2006, 06:23 PM
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has your sister heard the full story of her ex?? maybe for all she knew he was with a childhood friend whom he hasn't seen for a long time...
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Old 06-12-2006, 11:56 PM
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She must hear his side first...Maybe if she let him talk first, she will find out that it was not as bad as she thinks...
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Old 06-13-2006, 04:16 AM
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She must not jump to conclusions. I think it hurt her so much so she shutting him out of her life. But she must be open that it might be as bad as she ahd thought.
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Old 06-13-2006, 06:18 AM
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I think that she should sit down and hear what he has to say, you never know, it might not have been him....
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Old 06-13-2006, 10:10 AM
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I'm not sure this guy has a lot of things to say...the only thing he wants it's to convince her to come back because he regrets and not to explain her that he was just with a friend. If she wants to get over him quickly so that's a good decision.
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Old 06-13-2006, 10:37 AM
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Did she just see them together or were they doing anything to indicate they were having a relationship? If she just saw them together, she has to give him a chance to explain and decide if she will believe him or she will break up with him.
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Old 06-13-2006, 01:25 PM
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Even if it was him, he seems so sorry about it. Maybe she should hear his side of the story first before deciding. Although I must say, this should not be the way to start a marraige.
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Old 06-13-2006, 10:26 PM
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If it was him, the least he could do is admit it was him. However, there could more explanation to it. Your sister should have given him the chance to talk before she decided to break it off.
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Old 06-15-2006, 06:48 AM
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why he cheated on her? or he wanted to cheat why he got engaged in the first place...? guys are so confused, no wonder girls are doing the same to us guys not...
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