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My friend is getting divorce with her husband, they took the decision together and they have 2kids. They talked about it to the kids and explained to them all the reasons of their divorce, my friend has answered all the questions they were asking and she was surprised that they wasn’t so shocked and traumatized by this divorce because they are young. But since that her kids are very distant from her, they don’t obey anymore to her and they do what they want at home. She discovered that everyday their dad buy a gift for each one and told them that it was their mum who wants to leave him because she met another guy and she will abandon the kids too. So that’s why they are like that with their mum, because her spouse is lying to them and is buying their choice with all kind of expensive gift. Now they don’t want to stay with her after the divorce as it was supposed to be. What can she do?
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if the kids refuse to stay with their mum, there is not much that she could do about it. Even if she fights her case and she eventually win, however if the kids don't want to stay with the mother, the law cannot force them. she has to bear it.
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I think she should really fight for her kids..but it's going to be hard for her especially now that her children don't obey her..they have already lost all trust in her,,they already have a bad opinion of her..she'll need to be very careful and slowly make her way to the children's heart..show them she loves them..and let them decide if they can trust her!!
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hmmm not beautiful at all.. they are young so it will be difficult for her to tell them that their dad are lying to them. Just let it go, take it easy, one beautiful day tehy find out that their dad were lying and they won't talk to him anymore. But try to not stress about all this, just think that life is so nice and that your wasting your time with all these problems. Have fun, life is there for that too
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Poor guy he shouldn't have done this because all the harm his doing to his wife about the kids will get back to him! he's buying his children with gifts!! how can he do that!! She has to react about all this, don't let him act like that with your children!!!
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