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Old 06-12-2006, 12:13 PM
lightwhisper lightwhisper is offline
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My friend is getting divorce with her husband, they took the decision together and they have 2kids. They talked about it to the kids and explained to them all the reasons of their divorce, my friend has answered all the questions they were asking and she was surprised that they wasn’t so shocked and traumatized by this divorce because they are young. But since that her kids are very distant from her, they don’t obey anymore to her and they do what they want at home. She discovered that everyday their dad buy a gift for each one and told them that it was their mum who wants to leave him because she met another guy and she will abandon the kids too. So that’s why they are like that with their mum, because her spouse is lying to them and is buying their choice with all kind of expensive gift. Now they don’t want to stay with her after the divorce as it was supposed to be. What can she do?
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Old 06-13-2006, 11:36 AM
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if the kids refuse to stay with their mum, there is not much that she could do about it. Even if she fights her case and she eventually win, however if the kids don't want to stay with the mother, the law cannot force them. she has to bear it.
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Old 06-14-2006, 06:37 AM
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if the kids refuse to stay with their mum, there is not much that she could do about it. Even if she fights her case and she eventually win, however if the kids don't want to stay with the mother, the law cannot force them. she has to bear it.
I not agree with Dassami...she has to fight for her kids! Do you realize that she is going to lose them just because her spouse is lying to them!! It's not easy for a mum to admit that she will lose her kids like that!!She needs to talk with them and tell them all the truth!! Fight to keep them!!
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Old 06-19-2006, 11:05 AM
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she has to fight for her kids and i'm sure she will succeed coz the mother has the right for custody and good lawyer will do this well.
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Old 06-23-2006, 08:57 AM
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what the daddy is doing is completely wrong. coz he's creating a very wrong impression on their kids towards their mum. This is not human in a way
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Old 06-27-2006, 12:53 PM
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I think she should really fight for her kids..but it's going to be hard for her especially now that her children don't obey her..they have already lost all trust in her,,they already have a bad opinion of her..she'll need to be very careful and slowly make her way to the children's heart..show them she loves them..and let them decide if they can trust her!!
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Old 06-28-2006, 05:46 AM
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hmmm not beautiful at all.. they are young so it will be difficult for her to tell them that their dad are lying to them. Just let it go, take it easy, one beautiful day tehy find out that their dad were lying and they won't talk to him anymore. But try to not stress about all this, just think that life is so nice and that your wasting your time with all these problems. Have fun, life is there for that too
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Old 06-28-2006, 06:40 AM
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Poor guy he shouldn't have done this because all the harm his doing to his wife about the kids will get back to him! he's buying his children with gifts!! how can he do that!! She has to react about all this, don't let him act like that with your children!!!
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Old 06-30-2006, 07:27 AM
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whta she need to do is confront her ex along with the kids she need to classified thing with her kids She had to stay firm as not to lose her children because of some lies and expensive gifts
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Old 06-30-2006, 07:46 AM
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Her husband did this to have the child custody! thats awful to play like that with your own children! Let him act like that and life will give him a surprise
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