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Old 06-12-2006, 11:57 AM
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Me, George and my wife susan have been having a very happy married life for many yers now. But problems started when she went to get her driver’s license. She was planning to do that since a long time, and I pushed her to do it. Now that she has obtained it, she is the one driving the car everywhere. She goes to leave me at work, fetch the kids and go shopping, the car stays with her all the time. But recently she has been talking about getting herself a car. She wants to buy her own car. But i don’t want her to have a new car. The problem is that maintenance of the present car is costing a lot, and the house expenses and all eats up a big share of my salary. But she refuses to see that. She doesn’t work, but syas she will go to work only to buy her car. I am trying to save for the kids later.if she goes to work who will take care of the house, and anyway how much will she earn to be able to buy her car. She is being plainly stupid I think and is refusing to listen to me. She picks up a fight and it ends up on the car topic. What can I do in such a situation?she isn’t even talking to me properly and is sleeping on the couch in the tv room. This is childishness. But how can I make her see it?i really cannot listen to her talking about a car which i am sure will never appear in the near future, it is getting me frustrated and she is doing this on purpose.
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Old 06-13-2006, 06:38 AM
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if u already have a car and most of time she is using the car, what's the point of having new one ! really this is stupid and childish.

u know, let her in her corner until she decides to comes out. Don't show her that u r frustrated. Show her as if her reaction has no effect on u. Finally she will give up ! Try it .and let us know
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Old 06-13-2006, 07:10 AM
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she wll soon asked you for a divorced .my wife did the same to me
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Old 06-13-2006, 09:02 AM
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if she is working and she wants to buy her own car with her money then wers your problem..you will soon heard she wants to divorce you
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Old 06-13-2006, 09:05 AM
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why all is talking about divorce...i hate the word...because though i want my wife and kids back i filed for divorce-my wife doesnt want me anymore. george, you sit and calmly explain to her, if you loves your wief, take time with her. give her your car totally, use the local transport, bus anything... dnt lose your wife because of a car
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Old 06-13-2006, 09:56 AM
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let her work and buy her own car.. it seems that women like hving tier own fun in their own way, like my girl and her twin!
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Old 06-13-2006, 11:13 AM
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kinda sad that you cant give her the car yeah, then let her work for it. that way she will understand how hard it is to get one and relasie her own foolish behaviour
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Old 06-14-2006, 02:41 AM
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it's stupid for her to have her own car because if she gets one your financial stability will crumble... but you can get her a second hand car that's in good condition so that it's cheap and her own...
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Old 06-14-2006, 12:22 PM
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this is real stupid.

as it is, it seems to be that the current car you have is hers despite it being yours, she is the one who does all the driving.
she wants a new car, fine! why don't you just sell this one and get her a new one?!!!!!
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Old 06-15-2006, 03:34 PM
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Tell her again why you can't afford one. Ask her if she wants to sacrifice your children' future just so she can have a car. Maybe she will listen if the future of your children is brought up.
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