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Old 06-12-2006, 11:53 AM
WarlocK WarlocK is offline
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this year will be our 8th wedding anniversary. i was looking forward to it, believe me. but apparently, she wasn't. she told me that she wants to get a divorce. why? well it's simple really. she seems to think that i'm too much of a recluse. a total hermit. anti-social, unfriendly, cold and weird.
before we got married, these were the exact things that she found attractive in me. at that time she found those things "cool".
she's a social butterfly, i have to admit it but i never had a problem with it. at the start, even she accepted that i was a different sort of person. i don't mingle and hate crowds. but now she feels my anti-social behaviour will affect our kid's mentality...
i can't just let her blow away 8 beautiful years and the lives of our 2 beautiful kids who need us.
but it seems that all the things that made her fall in love with me are now all the reasons which are pushing her away from me
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Old 06-15-2006, 12:08 PM
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After 8 years your wife has turned mentally disturbed.....or may be its before she marry you she was already disturbed and its now she is ok....or its you who is mentally disturbed
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Old 06-15-2006, 12:20 PM
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it must be tough being mentally disturbed yea? yes you are right, she might be mentally disturbed. but then you are wrong because i am not. unless i am indeed mentally disturbed but living in denial. that's how mentally disturbed people are no? they live in denial.
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Old 06-16-2006, 08:16 AM
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Having children, you cannot live an anti-social life, of course this would affect ur children mentally, so if you don't want to divorce, better change ur ways..
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Old 06-16-2006, 08:17 AM
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After 8 years your wife has turned mentally disturbed.....or may be its before she marry you she was already disturbed and its now she is ok....or its you who is mentally disturbed

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it must be tough being mentally disturbed yea? yes you are right, she might be mentally disturbed. but then you are wrong because i am not. unless i am indeed mentally disturbed but living in denial. that's how mentally disturbed people are no? they live in denial.
hey guys & gurls r we supposed to discuss who is mentally disturb in the couple or providing a solution & support
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Old 06-16-2006, 05:04 PM
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Having children, you cannot live an anti-social life, of course this would affect ur children mentally, so if you don't want to divorce, better change ur ways..
Well, if you want her to stay maybe you can compromise and be less anti-social for the sake of the children.
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Old 06-18-2006, 05:36 PM
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then the best thing for you to do is to try and change yourself for your wife... you can keep that character in you but try to do the things she wants from you and maybe you'll both be happier...
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Old 06-21-2006, 12:56 PM
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hey guys & gurls r we supposed to discuss who is mentally disturb in the couple or providing a solution & support
then please explain why you aren't giving any solution or offering any support? you should follow your own advice instead of pointing fingers at the others

Warlock, along the years some people change and others don't. you didn't change but your wife's needs have. do you feel you could adapt to her needs?
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Old 06-22-2006, 10:11 PM
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Yeah, maybe you need to change or adjust a bit to be able to suit the needs of your wife.
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Old 06-23-2006, 12:43 AM
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Yeah, if you really love her and want to stay with her and your kids, you have to adjust.
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