Divorce - A closest friend

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06-12-2006, 11:33 AM

Dassami

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Married 3 years ago. So, far we had a wonderful life together until he started to betray me. I've discovered my husband's been unfaithful with one of our closest friends. The past few months have been a horrendous mixture of rows, tears and recriminations. I�m feeling bogged down by someone I love.

Sometimes i used to smashed things coz i get so furious, i still feel horrible

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06-12-2006, 06:25 PM

enigma

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let it all out dassami... let it all out... infidelity is something that lurks in most people... sometimes the best thing you can do is just leave him and forget it ever happened...

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06-12-2006, 11:53 PM

suzy74

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Is he sorry for this or he just want to continue doing it?.. If he's sorry, try forgiving him and start anew...If not, just leave him...Just like enigma said, let it all out...Cry all you want...When you're done crying, start a new life...

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06-13-2006, 04:19 AM

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I think you should talk to him how he feels about you. You must know so you can move on if he doesn't want you in his life anymore. Cry but don't do anything destructive to yourself.

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06-13-2006, 10:30 AM

Bettyboop

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Bettyboop says that you can't live like that with someone you love!!

If he doesn't have feelings for you anymore...what can you do?? You can also try to start something new if you want but you will need him for that..

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06-13-2006, 10:35 AM

Sailesh

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y don't u go out and find out another man and just chill out !! i guess its high time for this

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06-13-2006, 10:40 AM

lunis

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Is he willing to stop the affair? Has he tried amking things better with you? If not, I don't think you should stay.

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06-13-2006, 01:22 PM

fairgo

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The question is, are willing to forgive him and do you still love him? If not, you just have to leave him and move on.

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06-13-2006, 10:29 PM

iluuzija

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It hurts more because it was not only your husband who cheated on you but your friend as well. If they are serious about the affair, maybe you should let them be. Live your life on your own. One day you will also find the man who will cherish and love you.

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06-14-2006, 02:27 AM

enigma

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iluuzija has a point... if they are serious of the affair then forget about them and leave them forever in your past and avoid contact with them as much as you can... then start a new life with new friends and make things right again..

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