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Old 06-12-2006, 10:58 AM
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My name is stan. and i need help.I have been dating this amazing girl. We have been together for 5years now and I just proposed her to marry me, and she agreed. You people think its all rosy , but it is not, well, at least not to me!her job is causing me terrible tension and i dont know ho wto talk to her. i am scared she may wan to leave me once i let her know about my insecurites concerning her job.hope i can get some help from you guys.
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Old 06-13-2006, 06:39 AM
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you are making the biggest mistake in getting married......
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Old 06-13-2006, 06:43 AM
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Don't be scared, its a realtionship problem as another one:) don't be scared of girls , she won't eat you :) that's what im always telling me so then im not scared anymore :)
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Old 06-13-2006, 06:49 AM
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Hi Stan.
The only thing you van do its to talk to her about this problem before marrying her. She has to know if something is wrong in your relationship. She doesn''t know that her work is causing you terrible tension so how can she do something to help you? She has to know the problem for that. So go for it, talk to her, she won't leave you for that, you'll just have to find a better solution together...
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Old 06-13-2006, 08:54 AM
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well, take it easy stan. i dont know what to tell you frankly., my wife threw me out of her life without a reason. but talk to her if you love her and want it to work.
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Old 06-13-2006, 10:17 AM
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stan tell her what you dont like.if she loves you she will do something about it. i would never like my girl to be a model, no way
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Old 06-14-2006, 07:39 AM
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How do you want things change if you don't talk to her... Don't be scared man!! Your a man not a woman :)
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Old 06-14-2006, 07:42 AM
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How do you want things change if you don't talk to her... Don't be scared man!! Your a man not a woman :)

what do you mean by that revolution? get your head checked please! you are implying that women only are scared, and not men? where you got that from??check your sources well
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Old 06-14-2006, 12:29 PM
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you are making the biggest mistake in getting married......
Take a break Man! He's in terrible tension and need help, he didn't ask for your opinion!
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Old 06-15-2006, 06:02 AM
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if you really love the girl you want to marry her-then accept her job as well... whats the problem in that.she likes you with yuor job-like her with hers
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