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Old 06-12-2006, 10:40 AM
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My friend just discovers that the guy she loves the most in the world is her cousin! They are going out since 4months but she was scared to talk about it to her parents because they always complain that her marks at school are not good when she is going out with a guy, so she hides it to them and one day for a big family lunch at her place the two was presented as cousins! She couldn’t believe it and him too…So they were very lost and things would be worse for her if she talked about that to her parents… Now they don’t know what do and I don’t know what I can tell her because she is feeling very very bad.

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Old 06-13-2006, 05:40 AM
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Well you should see if they are first cousins! if its not the case then there ois nothing bad with the fact that they go out together!
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Old 06-13-2006, 05:53 AM
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This is a strange situation. Anyway, the kings used to marry their own cousins so i don't really see what could bug your friend so much! SHe shouldn't be scared or anything. Even if it is a serious relationship. If she loves him why should she bother?
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Old 06-13-2006, 05:58 AM
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This is a strange situation. Anyway, the kings used to marry their own cousins so i don't really see what could bug your friend so much! SHe shouldn't be scared or anything. Even if it is a serious relationship. If she loves him why should she bother?
Well maybe because even if the guy is not the first cousin he still is a member of the family! Ya stoopid or? Well...
I think that the girl have to choose either to please her parents or herself?
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Old 06-13-2006, 06:07 AM
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U'r friend shoul' take t'is decision herself, you sound to be little humies as i read. Twat age is u'r friend?
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Old 06-13-2006, 06:09 AM
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Well maybe because even if the guy is not the first cousin he still is a member of the family! Ya stoopid or? Well...
I think that the girl have to choose either to please her parents or herself?
And what does that change? Have you read what i have written thoroughly?
Anyway i stand on my position. It doesn't change a thing to be cousins or not

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Old 06-13-2006, 06:11 AM
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Well you should see if they are first cousins! if its not the case then there is nothing bad with the fact that they go out together!
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That's the only answer with a bit of sense in it. You should do what Sharpeye just wrote i guess?
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Old 06-13-2006, 09:00 AM
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I also agree with Sharpeye. If they are not first cousins , there is not so much problem. I just hope her parents will be understanding and open to such situations.
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Old 06-13-2006, 12:18 PM
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Maybe she should give priority to her studies too. If this thing is not that serious yet, she could consider following her parents. But if she thinks it's love and she's comfortable with the fact that they are cousins, she can continue the relationship and see where it goes. She must not consider marriage yet though since she's still in school.
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Old 06-13-2006, 12:39 PM
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2 sisters-one's son and the other's daughter fell in love-the family didnt like it but nevertheless they decided to carry on with they life and decided to marry as well.... many were displeased by this decision but still they went ahead. now after so many years they have 2 kids and are still living happily. and those who were displeased learnt to accept their union! it happened in my family!
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