
06-12-2006, 10:37 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Posts: 34
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I have been with this guy for 2 years and now I feel that the relationship Is nomore breathing. We seem so much engrossed in building our careers that we don’t have time for each other. We have demanding jobs and it is getting in the way. When I am at home, he is on a mission abroad and when he is there, I am tied up with some important campaign. We barely get to see each other in mornings or evenings and not enough time. We talk on the phone for barely 2mins. What kind of life is this. Its like we are dragging tis relationship with us everywhere. When people see us at parties,(which is rare) they are amazed that we are still together. And now even I am thinking whether it is fair to both of us to be still together. Maybe we could just be friends, and that would reduce the expectations that are there as a couple, this might make things more easy to handle. I am planning to move out of the flat we had rented a year ago. But I don’t know how to tackle the situation or announce it to him. He may think that I am seeing another guy or that I am doubting him. But I only want us to have a short break up and then we can see if we still feel like we did before. Otherwise this pause will help us realsie how much feelings is there left between us and if it is reason enough for us to be together.
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