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Old 06-12-2006, 09:57 AM
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hi guys, was surfing when i found this forum. i am pretty much disturbed these days. i am steffie, i am 19, university student and married!! surprising isnt it?we were living ok- we both had our jobs. life was easy. but after some months. i lost my job and all my allowance went into paying bills and living and there was barely enough left for me.i had my share of contributions to make and tried my best. Now I am very much lost, and confused with myself…



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Old 06-15-2006, 06:34 AM
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You lost ur job right! What about ur hubby, didn't he contribute to the expenses? You'll get rid of ur confusion once you find a job, thre's nothing to worry about it but you should no let these confusions affect ur relationship!
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Old 06-15-2006, 10:23 AM
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it was fun getting married so young wasn't it? now it's no more fun shouldering the responsibilities of marriage?!
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Old 06-16-2006, 10:20 AM
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u didn't a word about ur hubby. he seems to invisible in ur story. Can't he help a bit ?
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Old 06-19-2006, 05:50 AM
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absolutely Suz, where is the hubby, how come he left u in all these messy confusion. !!!!!!!
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Old 06-19-2006, 06:25 AM
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thats preety harsh...buddy..ya of courese you will feel disturbed its natural....wow 19 already married...oh now i see exactly why you are so disturbed...
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Old 06-19-2006, 06:29 AM
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So...and your husband in your story??He doesn't seem to be really implied in all your problems...is he helping you? You get married very young I think for a good reasons, things was going well for you and then what happened? If your husband is still working so he is supposed to help you if he can!
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Old 06-19-2006, 06:33 AM
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Both you and your husband need to work as a team and do this together, you need to work at your finaces ect together.
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Old 06-19-2006, 07:04 AM
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my hubby is himself student-he has to cater for his share of expenses , which is where his own pay is going along with the allowance he gets. being a student-he doesnt get much money at work.
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Old 06-19-2006, 10:18 AM
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you got yourself into a difficult situation by marrying when you are not even earning. you stil depend on parents it means, then you have to ask them to give you money
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