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Old 06-09-2006, 12:56 PM
Smyrna Smyrna is offline
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Hello dears, last time my father got to know that im going out with someone, told me to severe all ties with that guy cause he is a womaniser, i did what my dad told me! But i still love that guy.... Should i really discontinue with him or not???
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Old 06-09-2006, 03:48 PM
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are you absolutely sure that that guy that you love is really a womaniser?? has he been found guilty of this accusations?? or is your dad just being over-protective??
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Old 06-10-2006, 12:36 PM
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you have to find out if the guy is really that bad...your dad could be saying it only to get you to break up with the guy...you have to weigh what you know and what your dad is saying...talk to your dad why he's been saying bad things about the guy...if you think the guy is great then explain it your dad...tell him also that having a boyfriend doesn't mean you don't love him anymore...dads can be possessive of their daughters, you know...
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Old 06-10-2006, 06:28 PM
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you tell her chocolatee!! wait... I kinda said the same thing... anyway the point is if it's really just that then you shoud just talk to your old man... everything can be done in talking...
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Old 06-10-2006, 08:37 PM
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It helps to talk things out...You tell him your side and he tells you his...But listen to what he's saying because he might have a point or maybe what he's saying is true also...You may also try to find out for yourself how true his accusations are...Be objective about and decide...Good luck and hope you find happiness in love whether it be now or in the future...
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Old 06-10-2006, 11:32 PM
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Find out if the guy cheats or not. If he does, forget him. If he does not, then tell your dad he was wrong in a nice way. Ask him why he suspected or said anything like that. Tell him you love the guy and you love him too. You really love the guy so if he loves you, he will want you to be happy.
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Old 06-11-2006, 05:49 AM
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Confirm the accusation. You have to know if the guy is worth a second thought. If he is, talk to your dad and tell him he was wrong about it. If he doesn't have anything more against him then maybe you could ask him to understand why you like to go back to this guy.
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Old 06-11-2006, 07:56 AM
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Your love for the guy is a given. The issue is whether he is a womanizer or not. If he's not then you have a reason to go back to him. Another issue is why you dad said those things. If it's true then I guess he was just protecting you. If it's not then maybe he's afraid to let go of his daughter. Once you settled both issues, it will be easier to decide if it is wise to go back to him or not.
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Old 06-11-2006, 08:41 AM
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I agree. You have to answer those issues first. Only then can you decide wisely.
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Old 06-11-2006, 05:29 PM
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well since everybody here agrees with the problem you should start going for what we said Smyrna... see what happens and be sure to let us know...
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