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Old 06-09-2006, 08:29 AM
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My best friend is having some clashed with his wife recently coz of parenthood. She been feeling ready to start a family having a child. But my friend thinks that it is not the right time since they some financial problems. She don't seem to understand that. I'm friend is not ready for the challenges of parenthood. This is creating some frustration between them

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Old 06-11-2006, 02:03 PM
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it's better that he begs off being a father for the time being if he's not ready...however, he should not have married if having children was not part of the package, unless of course if they talked about this before they got married...
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Old 06-13-2006, 06:18 AM
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we don't need to have everything ready before the child is born. Financial problems is just an excuse for him not to shoulder the responsibility of a father.

When a baby born God bring his food along.
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Old 06-13-2006, 06:22 AM
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My cousin is facing the same problem with my wife actually. They just got married 6 months ago. Now the wife want a child and my cousin wants to wait until next year....this brings some tension in the family...sometimes the parents have their words which makes things even worst.
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Old 06-13-2006, 07:38 AM
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your friend is right he can't have children when financially he is poor...to rear a child nowadays it costs loads of money....its the child who gonna suffer...
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Old 06-20-2006, 01:56 PM
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I totally agree. It costs to bring up a child. They have to be sure that they will have enough money so that they can give him good health and a bright future.
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Old 06-21-2006, 01:35 PM
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Yes, he has to be financially and emotionally ready to be a father, although there are cases that dads just become ready when they see that they really need to be there for the baby. The financial part is a bit harder.
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Old 06-27-2006, 06:44 AM
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They have to be sure they will be able to give their baby a good future first.
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Old 06-28-2006, 11:40 AM
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Yes, he has to be financially and emotionally ready to be a father, although there are cases that dads just become ready when they see that they really need to be there for the baby. The financial part is a bit harder.
that something real nice that the case of almost all father because once the baby is born they feel proud and happy as for the financial pro they can work both of them pull their resources together make some saving work more so that the child will b a blessing instead of a curse on the couple
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Old 06-28-2006, 12:22 PM
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what if the financial problems go on and on...would this mean that he would never have a child. C'mon, we should not built a castle for the child.
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