Well it was good that he admitted it instead of lyign about it like most guys. I am not sure if she shoudl ro shouldnt forgive him. Once a cheater always a cheater...sooner or later the temptation will come back. I think if he is truly a good man and treated her well then I would forgive him only once but therapy may help them too. Soem people are too hurt when they are cheated on and cant get over it...

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i agree...some people can't handle the hurt of being cheated upon...it clouds their heart and provides no room for forgiveness...it's hard to say whether or not she did the right thing...

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Maybe she just didn't think she can trust him anymore...it would have been hard if she stayed with him and she would always be asking herself if her husband is having another affair...She will only live a miserable life...

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If she can't bring herself to trust him anymore, maybe it was a right decision.

I agree, the relationship would have still had problems if there is no trust between them.

nop she can try giving a chance to him....

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I agree that the lost of trust in someone who you had completely trusted before is extremely hard to obtain again. The relationship will not be the same again. You must be willing to live with the conditions surrounding this new relationship.

Some stay because of low self esteem (somehow they deserved what they got). Others leave because they are so self involved, they have no time for offending spouse. Other's try to make it work with set goals in mind. Some work out, some don't. In the end, the individual has to make the best choice for them.

Children always complicates issues. Sacrifices will have to be made regardless of the path they take.

Felp.

I think she did the right thing. I gave my ex-husband a second chance and he just cheated again. Once the trust is gone, the relationship is gone.

Yeah she did the right thing as she dont want to be hurt again and again in the future and if there is no trust in the relationship so wats the use.....