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I am in a real fix. I as a person do not believe in expressing my feelings for the others. However due to this fact my husband has started thinking that I do not love him at all ...........What should IO do ?
Last edited by Kindheart : 10-27-2005 at 04:10 AM. |
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The biggest mistake married people do is that they start taking each other for granted. You have to be conscious of the fact and always make dure that you do small things that make your spouse feel better. Another important aspect of marraige is communication. It is important to communicate each other and let each other know about their feelings. Do not make the mistake of not telling him , how much he means to you. Talk to him and make him understand. If need be take him to a counsellor .
Last edited by Pride : 10-27-2005 at 04:15 AM. |
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As far as communicating with my husband is concerned I have tried a couple of times but maybe we have built such a barrier between us that I cannot get across to him. Maybe a councellor can help us but i'll have to get him to a see a councellor first .
Anyways, Thanks for the guidance.:) |
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Things are going from bad to worse...Nothing seems to be improving ......Instead of feeling happy every passing moment seems to be engulfing me in a dark world of its own....Things are so bad that we have even stopped talking to each other .....Nothing seems to be working ....I don't think this can go on for too long ..........Do not know what to do .................................................. ................................................
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Now in normal days, when they had no fights, she was also not expressing much. So what new. He s not going to be dumb as she painting him. Love is not only expressed by saying three ties a day “I love you or I love you too” .Love for married couple is expressed many ways. Most woman cans how in their eyes how much they love. Then care, or worries about him .Protection , and looking for his comforts also matter.
How any woman can seek guidance when she needs none. Just care for him, see he gets what she can provide, no need to take supper till he comes or if he is worried over matters from outside give patient hearing or his health. many things can tell that she loves him. No madam, there is more to it, be frank and tell your husband what you would tell others. solution is close by. |
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i think you should try reaching out to him more...meanwhile try doing the things he used to like you to do...try to be demonstrative of your love...make him feel your love...i know this will be difficult if you get negative or no reaction at all...just hang in there a while...he might just come to realize that you do love him indeed...and he will reciprocate your actions too...
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If you love, show it. If you are angry, dont show.
Your husband is justified in his opinion. Coz sometimes it is necessary that you show your love and affection to him explicitely. Because you are his wife doesnt guarantee that you love him. Every human being loves to be adored and loved. And your husband is so nice that he had let you know what he thinks. Give him what he had asked for! Showing your emotions is not bad at all.
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I am wondering how you were able to tell your husband that you love him before you got married. Maybe that's what he's asking for. Before the fights, surely there were happy moments. Try to find ways to have some of that or recreate that.
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as your name suggest be kind heart and show your husband that you love him he is not a mind reader to understand you and read your mind
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