First time moms worry but dont let it get to you, she will realize as time goes by she will see that she doesnt have to worry so much...

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I think while its normal for her to worry about the baby, she must reassure her husband that she still loves him as much as before. She must also set aside some time to be with her husband.

She must involve him in taking care of the baby so he will get closer to the baby. Maybe he'll understand her more. But she must also take steps to reassure him that she loves him like she always did.

When a wife becomes a mother, she is most concerned about the role of being a mother rather than that of a wife. i believe that the husband should understand that the wife is looking after their child. But the wife should devote some time to her husband too. she is a mother but she cant forget her role as a wife.

Hi fairgo.I think that cicada26 has summarized it well.She will have to show her husband that she still loves him and that he does not have to be afraid.She should talk to him and tell him that this is perfectly normal for her to care for the baby.

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