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Old 03-22-2006, 08:26 PM
thrawn thrawn is offline
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I need advice on a friendship that I have, a while back this guy was my really good friend, as we shared the same interests, however now my tastes have changed alittle and I am no longer interested in the same things. Out time together ends up in silence and such like, and I'm not sure what to do

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Old 03-23-2006, 11:49 AM
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Well, since you had the same interests, I would think you'd still have -some- things in common. If not, both of you go and do something neither of you would've done before. In the very least, you can share the fact you both hated something. :)
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Old 03-24-2006, 08:11 PM
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people change, sometimes friendships simply drift apart. Maybe you should bring up the fact that you feel your friendship is growing stale to him.
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Old 03-24-2006, 08:46 PM
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mindthedoor, not really much help, he doesn't seem to hate anything except james blunt as far as i can see. I think your right scott, i'll work on it
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Old 03-25-2006, 07:56 AM
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How's it going, thrawn? If i might offer osme adice, the best bet is not to rush into it, that will only hurt everyone.
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Old 03-25-2006, 10:07 AM
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I'm going to talk to him on monday, thanks for all your support guys, wish me luck

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Old 03-29-2006, 04:04 AM
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If you talk to him, and you're still getting nothing, call it off. There's no point stagnating if the relationship has lost all interest. If he's a good person, he will accept that, and you can still be friends. If he can't accept it, perhaps you're better off not dating him in the first place.
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Old 03-29-2006, 06:39 AM
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Eish, thanks for the advice guys, but listen, i'm a guy, he's my friend, not my fiance or whatever, when i said friend that was all it was...
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Old 03-29-2006, 09:48 AM
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if you are not interested and nothing to talk why cant you depart i hope it will help you out
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Old 03-29-2006, 03:58 PM
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Well it seems ok, it appears that he's naturallyu moving apart, I'l leave it awhile and see how it is going
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