Usually a husband is around during the coarse of pregnancy and I have seen women marking the exact date of coception.Was he not there or just present physically?Reality has to be hammered down sometimes.

It happens a lot. People are always paranoid, and especially in today's world, they should be. It's nothing to be alarmed about - he's just being cautious, probably for his own well-being and hers as well. Take it with a grain of salt as they say and if it's really an issue then they need to talk it over and get it tested before the child is at too much of an impressionable age.

Well, maybe he expected the baby to look like him. I think babies look different when they are born. Eventually he will look like one or a combination of the features of the parents and some other relatives.

That's a bit worrying.. maybe he thinks or knows she might be up to something. It's normal, especially in today's world, to ask such a question and it's probably more in a nice way than not.. probably just trying to make sure everything's okay between them or something.

thats a bit upsetting, from a guys point of view the only reason i would say that to my wife is if i was very sure that she has been seeing another man behind my back. Tell your friend that she can have the baby teseted so there is never any doubt in her husbands mind that the child is his. That is the only way that he will be 100% certian.

how long have they been married? because if they were recently married he may be afraid of the change and then to top it off actaully seeing the baby may have triggered a whole new batch of fears for him.

It's quite possible that it is just shock, the emotion of the moment etc. people do funny things when put on the spot

Yeah. Maybe the pressure of taking on a greater responsibility just took on him. Later he'll realize what he said was wrong and apologize to her. If he still doubts it, then she should make the necessary steps to prove to him of his paternity.

what a horrible thing to say!! He is lucky I'm not his wife, I would have looked at him and then slapped him!! What an ignorant thing to say