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03-22-2006, 07:58 AM
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My friend was really in search for a girl to love at the time he met his girlfriend now. They just clicked right then and there so they bacame boyfriend and girlfriend fast. Now my friend is starting to realize that he doesn't really know the girl. He says they have no fights but it's like he's having a relationship with a stranger. I keep thinking, how could this happen? At first, they were so happy and now they don't know each other? It's confusing to me. I really didn't know what to say to him.
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03-22-2006, 11:42 AM
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This happens when one spends lot of time with others and less and less time with the friend.I guess giving the relationship more time will work provided they are for it.Sometimes a relationship falls apart if both have very little in common and that could be a reason.
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03-22-2006, 11:46 AM
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Apparently, it's clinically proven that love at first sight is some medical thing. I can't remember the name of it but it starts with a T I think...
See, the click is just the beginning of it. You need to pursue it and find out if you guys really -do- click or if it's just a fling sort of thing. My ex and I clicked straight away, but we knew we were total opposites - we really did not have much of anything in common, and it didn't work out.
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03-23-2006, 06:11 AM
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Maybe there wa some kind of attraction there but it was not love yet. Once they got to know each other they learned that they had nothing in common. If they can't accept each other for what they are, then I don't think it is or was love.
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03-23-2006, 01:19 PM
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You probably do not know the whole story, and in most cases, this happens. A lot of people -do- go with the person they "click" with but then you just base your relationship off of that and a lot of people don't take time beyond that. They think things should come as naturally as how they first felt for eachother or that, but things as we know, aren't that simple.
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03-23-2006, 05:09 PM
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I agree with Mindthedoor, you dont know the whole story. Things happen, people grow, they could have just grown apart from each other. They may have jumped in to quickly, however I dont think that anyone but they would know that.
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