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Old 03-22-2006, 03:37 AM
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If your partner has cheated on you, but he somehow convinced to you to forgive him. Would this be enough to make your relationship work? I mean you've been cheated on, the trust you gave him has already been broken. How sure can you be that he won't do it again? On you part, will you be able to trust him again after that?
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Old 03-22-2006, 05:52 AM
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when we are really in love then we will know is he true or not when he is convincing.......
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Old 03-23-2006, 09:00 AM
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I guess we just have to take the chance. By taking the chance we have to try to give the trust again. Then we have to work on other thngs that will make our our marriage better. The effort should come from both partners.
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Old 03-23-2006, 04:11 PM
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I forgave the first time and knew about a few others...but once the chain is broken you cant mend it....try therapy...
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Old 03-24-2006, 05:28 AM
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Forgiving is part of marriage, I think. You should give him a chance to prove it. And when you give it, learn to trust him again also.
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Old 06-12-2006, 08:47 PM
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I don't think that after someone has sex with another person that you will ever have total trust for that person! If they do it once it will happen again, and then you will realize that you can forgive, but not always forget!
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Old 06-13-2006, 08:14 AM
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I would be disgusted by that!! He would never touch me again that's sure!! For sure he can do it again...and you will never forgive yourself for that, it will be your fault because you gave him a second chance and he took advantage of that to cheat on you another time!!
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Old 06-13-2006, 08:21 AM
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no i would ask for a divorce.....you cheat me never come back again...
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Old 06-14-2006, 09:21 AM
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If you still love the person, it is possible to forgive but he must earn your trust.
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Old 06-14-2006, 10:11 AM
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trust is difficult to earn but ever so easy to break... i have a rule, once somebody break my trust, i can forgive that person, but dnt expect me to trust him/her again... its just me who's like that!
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