If you want to make your marriage work you have to be willing to trust again but since it cannot be given right away, it is up to the partner to prove his worth.

Me i know that if my boyfriend cheats on me just once i would never forgive him because i won't be able to trust him again and for me :
no trust = relationship is impossible

It is up to the person to consider if she can trust again. The guy has to know that it doesn't come as quickly though. In time if they are strong, trust will be developed again.

Yeah but it may not be the same thing as before...your relationship will take a blow for sure...but you may decide not to put an end to ypur relationship and try to make it work!!you will not be able to trust him fully coz you'll always be thinking he might cheat again..you might forgive him but it's difficult to forget!!

Women can forgive everything - except when the guy is being unfaithful. its like a theres a third person in a couple. The third person is invisible, but she is always there. indeed, i agree with lightwhisper - it would be disgusting if the guy tries to touch me, cause i know that he has been unfaithful. But some women give in just for the sake of children. Trust is a very crucial in relationship. I dont think that if trust is once broken, it can be mende. It takes years to build a relationship, and a minute to break it!

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never. love is based on trust and faith. and if that very foundation is broken there is no relationship at all. so i dont think that you should forgive him. if he did it once he will do it again. just ask him if ever you did it with him how would he have felt at that time. he will understand what you are going through. i firmly believe that you should not forgive such a person.

no i will never be able to trust someone who has once broken my trust, i wont be able to trust such a person again, maybe because of love he'll be back in my life but i'll always think of that betrayal and i'll always feel insecure, i dont think that such a relationship will work again but if it does then too good!!!!!!

This is what my boyfriend did, and I guess I would do the same for him then... But sincerely-speaking, I personally wouldn't have forgiven him (whoever it might be, except the one I'm with) so easily...I would find this very hard to go back to him too. When trus has been broken it is hard, almost impossible (simply IMPOSSIBLE I'd even say) to rebuild... human memory does not have only positive aspects..