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Old 03-22-2006, 03:31 AM
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If your partner has been lying to you, cheating on you or just keeps on hurting you in any way, how many times do you have to forgive him/her? How many times is too much?
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Old 03-22-2006, 05:54 AM
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you can forgive him once excuse him twice then punish him finally leave him
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Old 03-22-2006, 06:55 PM
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You will know when you had it...once you make a decision hold to it and move forward.
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Old 03-23-2006, 07:58 AM
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I guess you just have to take it for as long as you can and then decide to leave when the cheating and the lying has already passed your limit.
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Old 03-23-2006, 08:53 AM
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Only the person can say it's too much already. Usually we just take it until it reaches brim of our limit.
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Old 05-30-2006, 08:53 AM
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In my opinion the first time is already too much!!
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Old 05-30-2006, 10:13 AM
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He can be forgiven only once....and you should put an end to such type of relationship where there is always betrayal and lies....
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Old 05-30-2006, 10:55 AM
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This kind of decision must be taken by one only.. in this case it is you.. If you really love him.. go for it.. if not.. leave him..

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Old 05-30-2006, 11:53 AM
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Exactly Mozerfof!you are the only one who can decides that..nobody else... concerning me...the first is already too much too!!i will never wait for another time... I never trust in the "i promise you i will never do it again.." classic sentence...
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Old 06-01-2006, 11:34 AM
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My g/f has been cheated on by her ex...when i asked her to go out with me she was scared to live the same thing with another guy...i try to convince her by all the way but she refused everytime. Then i learned her how to trust in me and if one day i'm interest by another girl i will tell but never cheat on her...
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