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Old 03-21-2006, 03:37 PM
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Sometimes, breakups can really mess people up, especially if you really did love them. But they're not always bad. My mom, for instance got out of a relationship ages ago (her first marriage) where the guy had just lied to her about everything and was a drug addict. After she had his child, he basically wanted nothing to do with my sister. My mom remarried afterwards.

My sister, also ended up being in an abusive relationship, and she was smart enough to get out of it quick (about a year into the marriage). I always hated that guy, but it's nice to see people finally standing up for themselves!
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Old 03-22-2006, 01:09 AM
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What's bad about a breakup is the feeling of losing the person you love. BUt as you said it isn't always bad. It isn't when something good comes out of it, like when your mom remarried and she became happy. The breakup gave her the chance to have that.
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Old 03-23-2006, 05:15 AM
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When you breakup like that it feels like a part of you has died. It takes ages to realize that you are happy and honestly better off now then when you with that person. It jsut takes a while to realize that
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Old 03-23-2006, 07:16 AM
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We feel sad when we expience a break up because we always hope that our relationship would work. If it does not, it hurts because we have put our lives into it. But when after a break up, our lives becomes better, we become thankful for it.
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Old 03-26-2006, 03:10 AM
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I think break ups are bad but if this paves the way to a happier life, you get over the hurt and the negative feelings you've had.
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Old 04-25-2006, 06:24 AM
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ya thats true people cant waste there life when for nasty relationships
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Old 05-09-2006, 03:26 PM
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i think really that most breakups end up being good in the end. There is a reason why the people are breaking up and it is usually because they are not getting along or someone does not want to be there. Everything turns out okay in the end.
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Old 05-12-2006, 12:13 PM
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yeah i agree break up are not always bad...but at the beginning its quiet hurtful...whtever happens happens for the best...
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Old 05-12-2006, 12:15 PM
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yeah...in many situations, break ups are justified. mostly if one of the partners is being abused...
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Old 05-12-2006, 12:20 PM
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Break-ups make people become wiser with so many experiences..Character is determined more by the lack of certain experiences than by those one has had. I certainly don't regret my experiences because without them, I couldn't imagine who or where I would be today. Life is an amazing gift to those who have overcome great obstacles, and attitude is everything.. And we every right to get out of a relationship where it's not workin properly, mostly abusive relationships!
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