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03-21-2006, 03:27 PM
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I've always been a very aggressive person... as a child I used to throw tantrums and practically destroy the house and when I became a teenager things only got worse because I had more strength, etc.... My father is quite an aggressive man and used to hit me - could I have gotten this from him??
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03-23-2006, 08:22 AM
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Lunis is right. You can change your behaviour. It is a positive sign that you realize this.
You could say that being aggressive is in your genes. Also, since you have seen your father as an aggressive person, it has gotten into your behaviour. Stay calm. Do some meditation. Make it a point that you wont lose your temper at slightest instances.
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03-23-2006, 01:58 PM
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05-03-2006, 03:21 PM
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I also think it is probably that you got the agressive behavior by seeing your father act that way. However, it is very important to change this behavior or you will end up hitting those that you love .. or in jail for assault.
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05-12-2006, 11:24 AM
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Being aggressive is very bad as you could do anything in anger such as murder...It good that you have realised your weakness and its important to change your behaviour man...or else you will land up in serious problem!!!
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05-12-2006, 11:48 AM
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You should have control over your anger. Try some meditation in your spare time! I'm very short-tempered, but not aggressive! Yeah, it could be just a hereditary thing! You could have got that from your dad. Now that you are growing up, you will be faced with serious issue: school, work, public place. You have to invent something to put a halt on your surpassed anger everytime it happens to you. I think that as your dad was beating you, you developed that attitude. Instead of being traumatised and reserved, you became a repressive person. But do not bully anyone, or try showing megalomaniacal behaviour!
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05-12-2006, 01:19 PM
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Not necessarily... People might say it's hereditary but i don't think so. It's part of you...and you should control it!
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05-12-2006, 01:38 PM
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Yea it is part of him definitely, but it has been proved that the DNA codes that the father has, is also present in the son. Just like diabetes is hereditary!
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They broke you down and now you're broken and it’s sadder than the saddest movie I ever saw but with out the beauty so I stopped watching, I stopped caring I lost all interest and I stopped wearing these plastic smiles I’ll wash my hands clean... I'll forget that you forgot about me `Relationships are like films... Just because they don't last forever, it doesn't mean.. you can't enjoy them`
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